So I was born in new York raised in south Florida been a member of this forum since 2000-2001 i've been proposition for marriage by girls from all over the world from anywhere from 5000 to $20,000 and if you have to pay an escort and are between the ages of 18 and 25 and not take advantage of the high school college slut there's something wrong those are just my thoughts and if you've been married 10 plus years and your wife takes you for half of what you're worth than you pay for it you just want to admit it and if you guys agree?
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What is your definition of paying for it?
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That's a rambling sentence so I don't know exactly what your point is. As far as answering the question in the title, I'd say if a woman is more interested in what you have instead of who you are, then her interest is transactional.
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Its not the same thing. With a marriage, there is a genuine interest and its lawful. If something goes wrong down the road but the parties acted in good faith on the wedding and exchange of vows then you are not really paying for that and its a cynical false equivalency. If you are paying out on a divorce then it means you are doing better then she is economically, otherwise she would be paying you. Its just more a function of basic hypergamy that in most marriages the guy is doing better economically than the woman and is providing for her. For example, I have an ex wife and visited an escort in the past and while I may have thought in such childish terms before, I dont anymore and can see that is an crazy way to see the world. Escorts are being paid to get run a train on daily by guys she does not know or are attracted to or do disgusting things with them, etc....
If there is money then some men will be willing to pay. In the recent traditional money and marriage system all men paid for it. Now every woman wants a man to pay which is to make him a husband and control him. If a man didnt pay he can have one or multiple partners and there would be little drama or issues in the relationships. Paying for it is taking more emotional stress or negatvitiy for which you are not being compensated financially or in some none romantic way.
Every woman expects every man to pay ie become a husband and provider, or have the ability to, or to pay with emotional stress, feed her narcissmism, queen syndrome etc but the main thing is that even the emotional and psychological narcissism that women show is only possible because many men are willing to pay and the main thing is that men are willing to pay by being husbands paying with commitment, money and monogamy. Then you have to knw that many beta males and young men are especially willing to pay and they see themselves as trad but in reality they are the most weak and beta of men.
Every woman expects every man to pay ie become a husband and provider, or have the ability to, or to pay with emotional stress, feed her narcissmism, queen syndrome etc but the main thing is that even the emotional and psychological narcissism that women show is only possible because many men are willing to pay and the main thing is that men are willing to pay by being husbands paying with commitment, money and monogamy. Then you have to knw that many beta males and young men are especially willing to pay and they see themselves as trad but in reality they are the most weak and beta of men.