SeymourCake
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What do you do daily that helps you become the better version of yourself?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What is your daily routine?
- Thread starter SeymourCake
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
resilient
Master Don Juan
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- Work weekdays to pay the bills and save for grad school
- Study daily to further my education
- Hit the gym on weekdays
- Practice the guitar for motor association cortex (hand skills), Wernicke's area (hearing/emotion), and the cerebellum (coordination) - diagram
- started this daily routine two months ago and wish I had started years ago, lol. Never too late to start something new though... the mind loves to play and explore creativity.
- Try to squeeze in some time for deep breathing / meditation / prayer before bed time
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Quiet mornings...lots of time for thinking/planning.
resilient
Master Don Juan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
- Get up at 4am or earlier.
- Start work by 5am (you can be done by 1pm).
- Hit the gym with my physical trainer at 6am.
- The finest foods and coffee.
- Drink only fine wine and vodka.
- Eat organic, local, green, raw, biodynamic, in season foods.
