SeymourCake
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What do you do daily that helps you become the better version of yourself?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What is your daily routine?
- Thread starter SeymourCake
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
resilient
Master Don Juan
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- Work weekdays to pay the bills and save for grad school
- Study daily to further my education
- Hit the gym on weekdays
- Practice the guitar for motor association cortex (hand skills), Wernicke's area (hearing/emotion), and the cerebellum (coordination) - diagram
- started this daily routine two months ago and wish I had started years ago, lol. Never too late to start something new though... the mind loves to play and explore creativity.
- Try to squeeze in some time for deep breathing / meditation / prayer before bed time
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Quiet mornings...lots of time for thinking/planning.
resilient
Master Don Juan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
- Get up at 4am or earlier.
- Start work by 5am (you can be done by 1pm).
- Hit the gym with my physical trainer at 6am.
- The finest foods and coffee.
- Drink only fine wine and vodka.
- Eat organic, local, green, raw, biodynamic, in season foods.
