"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is your biggest Strength & Weakness?

Rex Man

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Self-explanatory,

For all the forum members with AT LEAST 1 LAY, what would you say is your ONE biggest strength and your ONE biggest weakness when it comes to gaming women. I'm just curious, and who knows, we might see a trend that could prove useful for people trying to figure out what they should work on.......

ok, I'LL START!

+ Humor/Wit, you'd be suprised at how many panties you can laugh off.

- Openings, sometimes my openings are really sh!tty, especially when I give myself time to get nervous.

DISCUSS!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JackRyanJuan

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didn't read fine print
 
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mtlwlu

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Strength: funny and bold

Weakness: doubting my abilities to get the HB9s
 

Flabbergasped?

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+ Unless some chick really hates me, I can usually plow and get her buying temperature up.
- I'm terribly bad at closing (especially kiss-close) and bring things to an f-close at the end of the interaction. In other words, it's tough for me to get that first kiss in, and after I have fingered a girl, it's hard for me to make her put out. It's usually a logistics issue.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm Charming

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Strengths : Strong character, confident, dont give a flying fook what anyone thinks about me.

Weaknesses : Hardly ever compliment anyone, not a terribly strong conversationalist.
 

rain63

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+ My looks... call me preppy, but i know how to dress (thx mostly to my older sister growing up)

- My size... 5'8", 140 soaking wet. Most girls are taller if they're wearing heels and i get shoved around quite easilly on a dance floor even by the inadvertent bump from a lot of guys (even some girls)
 

slickaz

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Strengths: looks and body, dress sense and humour, satisfaction guaranteed
Weaknesses: first kiss close (once past 1st i find it easy to F) approaching HB8s or 9s ( its usually them that approach me)
 

Rex Man

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Pretty interesting stuff. What I've found is that it is manytimes it is good to have a wing with complimentary strengths. For example, me and my best wing have somewhat of a system. I play the bad guy that keeps toeing the line and keeps the laughs coming (and secures the close), where he is the safety net if I go too far and the charmer and the set-up man. That may not have made much sense but it's the best I can do to describe it.

Another extremely useful tool I've found in clubs is the starter/closer relationship. It goes like this, let's say me (the starter) chats up this hb 8.5 and get some decent vibes. My friend (the closer) would then chat up her hb 7 friend. After a few minutes of chatting the closer would try to see if he can get the girls to leave. If the girls respond favorably, good. If not, the starter pretends to not be a part of the f close and keeps 'pitching'. After one more unsuccessful f close by the closer; we # close and move out.

Sorry for the typos, I'm in a serious rush.

Keep 'em coming though!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Strengths: Calling out guys' bullsh1t pvssyfooting and poking holes in their excuses.

Weaknesses: Same as above. I tend to be a bit of a realist and don't buy what most of you he-b!tches are selling.

Women are such a miniscule part of a man's life that it behooves us to put them on the back burner until we're in such a positive state that we can be happy single before considering becoming half a happy couple.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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strenghts: good conversationalist, funny
weakness: too nice and not "jerk" enough, too busy with work and other stuff that i get complacent and dont put in time for the game. You gotta do this often can never get complacent.
 
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