"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is your biggest Strength & Weakness?

Rex Man

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Self-explanatory,

For all the forum members with AT LEAST 1 LAY, what would you say is your ONE biggest strength and your ONE biggest weakness when it comes to gaming women. I'm just curious, and who knows, we might see a trend that could prove useful for people trying to figure out what they should work on.......

ok, I'LL START!

+ Humor/Wit, you'd be suprised at how many panties you can laugh off.

- Openings, sometimes my openings are really sh!tty, especially when I give myself time to get nervous.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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didn't read fine print
 
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Strength: funny and bold

Weakness: doubting my abilities to get the HB9s
 

Flabbergasped?

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+ Unless some chick really hates me, I can usually plow and get her buying temperature up.
- I'm terribly bad at closing (especially kiss-close) and bring things to an f-close at the end of the interaction. In other words, it's tough for me to get that first kiss in, and after I have fingered a girl, it's hard for me to make her put out. It's usually a logistics issue.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm Charming

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Strengths : Strong character, confident, dont give a flying fook what anyone thinks about me.

Weaknesses : Hardly ever compliment anyone, not a terribly strong conversationalist.
 

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+ My looks... call me preppy, but i know how to dress (thx mostly to my older sister growing up)

- My size... 5'8", 140 soaking wet. Most girls are taller if they're wearing heels and i get shoved around quite easilly on a dance floor even by the inadvertent bump from a lot of guys (even some girls)
 

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Strengths: looks and body, dress sense and humour, satisfaction guaranteed
Weaknesses: first kiss close (once past 1st i find it easy to F) approaching HB8s or 9s ( its usually them that approach me)
 

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Pretty interesting stuff. What I've found is that it is manytimes it is good to have a wing with complimentary strengths. For example, me and my best wing have somewhat of a system. I play the bad guy that keeps toeing the line and keeps the laughs coming (and secures the close), where he is the safety net if I go too far and the charmer and the set-up man. That may not have made much sense but it's the best I can do to describe it.

Another extremely useful tool I've found in clubs is the starter/closer relationship. It goes like this, let's say me (the starter) chats up this hb 8.5 and get some decent vibes. My friend (the closer) would then chat up her hb 7 friend. After a few minutes of chatting the closer would try to see if he can get the girls to leave. If the girls respond favorably, good. If not, the starter pretends to not be a part of the f close and keeps 'pitching'. After one more unsuccessful f close by the closer; we # close and move out.

Sorry for the typos, I'm in a serious rush.

Keep 'em coming though!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Strengths: Calling out guys' bullsh1t pvssyfooting and poking holes in their excuses.

Weaknesses: Same as above. I tend to be a bit of a realist and don't buy what most of you he-b!tches are selling.

Women are such a miniscule part of a man's life that it behooves us to put them on the back burner until we're in such a positive state that we can be happy single before considering becoming half a happy couple.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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strenghts: good conversationalist, funny
weakness: too nice and not "jerk" enough, too busy with work and other stuff that i get complacent and dont put in time for the game. You gotta do this often can never get complacent.
 
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