BGMan
Master Don Juan
Must have missed it...
BGMan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What is wrong with me?
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BGMan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Give me a few minutes and I'll throw some pictures up again. May as well put a face to the smart mouth. I've got some new ones the old timers might be interested in seeing anyhow. I'll start a thread in "Anything Else"...just like old times.
englishman
Master Don Juan
So your good looking! a model! and into acting! and a bit gay right? my remedy would be get drunk, have a few fights tell your mum to f*ck off everynow and then and stop being so girly! serious..aslo I gotta disagree with earlier post that said all women same from all countries, In some countries there f**ing horrible mate...swedish chicks are good looking but many are over bearing spoiled femenisty types....also I heard in sweden its considered inpolite and a sign of male dominance for men to stand up for a pis.....so they sit down for one like little pu*sys? if thats really the case f**ing move mate........good luck ;-)
Yup yup!
I think it's cuz they are raised this way. Not all are the same of course. But way too many sweds are very cold and on top of that we're early taught that all kind of confrontations are bad. And you should "Sköt dig själv och skit i andra" - Mind your self, don't care about others. This is something I guess could be an obstacle we DJs here have to deal with.
We never talk to our neighburs without a reason. We never argue. We're affraid of confrontations. If you approach someone on the street they think you're either drunk or a madman, not that I care
We try to accept everyone (even tho you're a madman), that's something we can use to our advantage to avoid getting brushed of before we even started, but we rarely says what we're REALLY thinking but what we think others wanna hear. And that could be a problem too.
I guess all you have to do is change a little how you appear, right? Am I to pessimistic?
I think it's cuz they are raised this way. Not all are the same of course. But way too many sweds are very cold and on top of that we're early taught that all kind of confrontations are bad. And you should "Sköt dig själv och skit i andra" - Mind your self, don't care about others. This is something I guess could be an obstacle we DJs here have to deal with.
We never talk to our neighburs without a reason. We never argue. We're affraid of confrontations. If you approach someone on the street they think you're either drunk or a madman, not that I care
We try to accept everyone (even tho you're a madman), that's something we can use to our advantage to avoid getting brushed of before we even started, but we rarely says what we're REALLY thinking but what we think others wanna hear. And that could be a problem too.I guess all you have to do is change a little how you appear, right? Am I to pessimistic?
"Mind your self, don't care about others. "
People on the streets in bigger cities are normally very busy. In the subways on their way to work, on their way to lunch, on their way back from lunch and on their way home again.
Five times a week. 24 hours a day. If you ask me it's never a good idea to approach people that seems to be busy or on their way to something.
It's like this in almost every bigger city where a lot of people travel on regular basis. Stockholm, London, New York. You get the idea.
But wait. If they're walking in a park, sitting somewhere reading, or having lunch on their own they're probably just waiting for an interesting stranger like you or me.
People on the streets in bigger cities are normally very busy. In the subways on their way to work, on their way to lunch, on their way back from lunch and on their way home again.
Five times a week. 24 hours a day. If you ask me it's never a good idea to approach people that seems to be busy or on their way to something.
It's like this in almost every bigger city where a lot of people travel on regular basis. Stockholm, London, New York. You get the idea.
But wait. If they're walking in a park, sitting somewhere reading, or having lunch on their own they're probably just waiting for an interesting stranger like you or me.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
BGMan
Master Don Juan
Actually, to me it looks like it should be translated "Mind yourself and care sh!t about others"
BGMan