What is wrong with girls?

[KEddie]

I've been working on this girl for the last two weeks or so, and things were getting pretty good until last night. Last night she brought not one but TWO different guys up to our hang out at different times. I was like WTF, is she trying to make me jealous or what? So I played it aloof like I didn't care and went about my business.

I don't get it though. Last week we were playing around and having a good time, and now she's bringing these stupid guys up. My professional opinion is to next her, even though I was hoping to have at least one round in the ring with her.

I'll probably see her next week sometime, and I've already decided that it's either going to be the last time, or possibly the beginning if she stops playing her girly games.

What do you guys think?

 

[Bvbidd]

Mabye she's a real person who talks to other guys?

She's not playing a game.. she's just meeting other guys.
I don't get your point. If your "playing around" why would she think otherwise?

I mean seriously.. she probally thinks nothing of it.
It's not a sh!t test or anything.. she's just going on with her life.
If it's a problem tell her. She'll leave you.. but I mean if it's bothering you so much.. let her know.
This is your problem not hers.

 

[KEddie]

She probabl doesn't. It just seemed like she was doing it intentionally to make me jealous or something. It's not like I'm bringing up the other girls that I meet.

Does that make sense?

 

[everywomanshero]

Dude, reality check;

You straight trippin over some girl you aren't even with in any capacity.

You can't NEXT someone you can't get to agree to be involved with you. You simply get snubbed. AT the same time you're right, you don't have to care what she thinks or have her a part of your existence.

The ultimate cause of this problem in the first place:

Are you really getting at least 12 new leads each week. Go to bars, find them online, make sure you have at least 12 new leads to follow each week. That means you will have to approach far more.

She's just a friend at this point. I would try to bang her, anyway. Decide is she's going to be bangable or not. If she's totally not bangable, then guess what her new role is? Truly a friend. Start really treating her like a friend. Use her as a sociological experiment to learn about women. Use her as social proof to help PU other chicks. Remember to make it look like she's after you. It's just part of the smoke and mirrors routine, but it does make a difference when combined with other beneficial factors.

There isn't really an answer to this question so much as there is a solution to it. It really doesn't matter what any one chick is doing|thinking|feeling at this level in the game. Even if you sleep witha girl once, you still aren't with her in any capacity. Girl's give out #s and make out with random guys all the time. It doesn't mean anything. It's normal for them.

 

[realsmoothie]

Last night she brought not one but TWO different guys up to our hang out at different times.

I see your problem. You live in a tree-house.

 

[Trapper]

they might be real friends of her.. so watch out..

 

[Randomer]

I see your problem. You live in a tree-house.

rofl, that's what i was wondering... what do you mean your "hang out"?

 

[KEddie]

Perhaps I do live in a tree house, but at least I don't waste my days on some internet forum pretending that I know everything there is to know about women.

I remember when you could come to this forum and actually get advice from your peers and everyone would benifit from it. Nowadays, it seems like real thoughts and advice are few and far between. So, props to everywomanshero and Bvbidd for taking the time to formulate real input on the subject.

As for what is meant by hang out. Every week me and a bunch of friends show up to a restaurant and loiter around a fvck off. And so the girl in question is a waitress there, but she just comes up there anyway on her off day to hang out with me.

So yeah, when she brings other guys up it confuses me, since she has no other reason to be there. Or maybe she does I don't know.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Perhaps I do live in a tree house, but at least I don't waste my days on some internet forum pretending that I know everything there is to know about women.

The irony of making fun of people for wasting time on an internet forum....while making fun of them on that same internet forum..... :crackup:

 

[bud_2005]

Why are so many of you ok with her bringing 2 guys to hang out with. I would of been like "F that".

 

[arlanda]

Why are so many of you ok with her bringing 2 guys to hang out with. I would of been like "F that".

Maybe because KEddie and that lady are just friends?

They haven't kissed, made out or anything but had a good time so the girl has no obligation towards him.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

That's disrespectful..next her..

 

[KEddie]

Actually, we have swapped spit, and I've copped a feel. And truthfully, I don't think that counts for much, I mean sure it's Kino, but after last weeks display it seems like free samples from the grocery store.

My plan is this week to basically giver her an ultimatum. That sounds bad, but it's the only word I can think of. Anyway, I'm just going to tell her that if she's actually interested then I'm all for it if, not that's fine too, but I'm not wasting my time with games. And then that's it.

 

[MightyMate]

Whats wrong with girls? Whats not! Dude.