"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is war?

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First works artillery and aviation to soften targets.
Then comes in military ground troops and armor to clean up targets.
Then moves in police to enforce new order.

Usually die women, children, elderly, and non combatants, because nature of any army is mobility and nature of civilians to stay put.

War is murder of innocent people.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Finally we have an alternative answer to the decades-old question, War!....HUUUUUHH!!!...Good God y'all. What is it good for?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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War is a reallocation of resources. Usually it's the government taking the resources from the governed. It's no secret that wars are started whenever a government needs money. The characters involved and the setting are just that: characters and setting. Do you think we really go to war to depose and "evil dictator?" There are hundreds of evil dictators around the world, some of whom the US is kissing cousins with. yet, we don't go to war against them. why not? Nothing in it for us. If something comes up though, that's another story.

As far as innocent civilians getting killed, well, cost of doing business. Any corporate executive will tell you the same thing. Same goes for the soldiers, marines, sailors and airmen that spill their blood.

George Orwell had this idea, that whenever a society experiences a prolonged period of relative peace (like the 1990s), the inevitable result is a surplus of money and time afforded to the society. It is the government's role to take that money and time back from the governed. This is accomplished through wars and taxes. Hence, war is not waged against evil or an enemy or to free an oppressed people, what have you. Wars are fought by the government against the governed. The locales and parties involved are only window dressing. Again, blood spilled is only a small price to pay for a big investment that pays very well.
 
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