"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what is up with this weird chick..........plese help

Lost In the Seas

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i dont know about that, not sure if my mom is gonna be home on fri night, plus she has never come to my house before
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jakeyboy

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so what if its her first time at your place? check if your mom's in. if not you could try saying this "hey _______, i've got a DVD i reckon you might like, lets watch it this friday night. i'm not sure if my mom'll be home... say your place?"
 

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Originally posted by griffon65
Shes immature, nothing more to it.
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Lost in Seas, I dunno how old you are, but if she's over the age of 18-21 - you shouldn't put up with this immature crap. You may think it's all cute and emotional - but the emotional part will wear you down in school, it will wear you down in work, it will wear you down as a whole person. Do you want that?

At my age, if a girl is over 21 and she gives me hot/cold, acts immature when it comes to emotion, I start thinking about other ladies I can be with.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jakeyboy

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she's 14. HAHAHA.

er... yeah you could just outrightly tell her you wanna be alone with her.

"how bout just you and me for a change?"

if she declines then f**k it man. move on.
 
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