Doctor Europeo
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Oh I think I get it now. They don´t have sex with someone else but she loves creating competition anxiety. I´ve met those.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Under the correct desperation and duress, all women have it. Every single one. Nearly every divorce, if not all, she was already seeing another man and putting him under competition.Oh I think I get it now. They don´t have sex with someone else but she loves creating competition anxiety. I´ve met those.
So if you have a LTR, and she´s not having sex with anyone else, but she loves creating competition anxiety with comments about her orbiters or male co workers or something. How do you handle it?Under the correct desperation and duress, all women have it. Every single one. Nearly every divorce, if not all, she was already seeing another man and putting him under competition.
A man at some level knows and he starts getting desperate to fix it. That only makes it worse.
That anxiety she creates turns a man into a working dog. A production t-Rex. All for her.
That’s a hell of a question. How do you circumvent her biology? You have to be one hell of an optimized male.So if you have a LTR, and she´s not having sex with anyone else, but she loves creating competition anxiety with comments about her orbiters or male co workers or something. How do you handle it?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I have a LTR 2+ years and still going strong. I saw her friday night, and saturday night and had a sex marathon. I normally don´t see her on sundays but I do give her a phone call. Last sunday I called her and she was like Hey love I´m visting this place with one of my orbiters.That’s a hell of a question. How do you circumvent her biology? You have to be one hell of an optimized male.
Correct move. It’s also misdirection. She has orbiters. Unless she’s a pig.I have a LTR 2+ years and still going strong. I saw her friday night, and saturday night and had a sex marathon. I normally don´t see her on sundays but I do give her a phone call. Last sunday I called her and she was like Hey love I´m visting this place with one of my orbiters.
Me: Really? That´s cool. Put him on the phone, I wanna say hi.
She was hesitant but eventually she did put "him" on the phone. Turns out she was just joking, she was hanging with one of her female friends (who she put on the phone haha).
She does this all the time. I just kinda ignore it and shrug it off.
In reality if you just ignor the comments about her male friends and coworkers, just from experience now, just my experience alone, some will go into dispair and divorce you or start having affairs due to all her justifications of you “won’t talk to her.”, “you are too emotionless.” Etc.
In reality, she can’t predict her survival potential because you can’t be manipulated to feel those things that will turn you into a slave. Thus she might just take a loss and find a new guy that can be contrived to fall into slave mode from competition anxiety.
This goes back to Spaz’s realization. Just the act of going into a LTR or marriage means that you are willing to subject yourself to her protection under duress. Biologically, you are submitting. Can you see it now? This is why women can’t stand a self made successful bachelor. They have to test their skills at getting you to commit to your own enslavement. It does fire her circuits and turns her on sexually. Remember, a woman’s love is ALWAYS conditional. It’s not really love at all. It’s chemicals.
The second thing she could do is REALLY go about reducing you. Roll up her sleaves and really get after it. Start crying and make you feel bad for being a man and holding your frame. Etc
Or go BPD or whatever they call it. Step up the sex really hard and then withdrawal it to see if that works. Sometimes much much worse.
In this case she knows it’s unlikely that she will find a more promising man based on her own perceived SMV.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Some really get off submitting men in a "pvssy trance". Its whipping a man without giving anything.Oh I think I get it now. They don´t have sex with someone else but she loves creating competition anxiety. I´ve met those.
At some point you have to entertain the notion that humans are not animals. Reduced to nature, absent of any moral compass or code, sure, we act like them. But that is not the true intent here, and we are not designed to be mere beasts. That's what many want, though (mainly the liberal democrats). They want animals, sheep, whatever.....they are easily controlled. It's human nature, absent of morality. Is human nature even a real thing anyway? It's just nature.Don’t hate women. They were never in our league to start with. They are being women and doing what they need to do to further the human race.
Moral codes are foisted on men to serve the women or more accurately, the Feminine Imperative. That also comes straight from Easter Vilar. Develop your own.
Honor is what YOU define it as. Not the government. Not women. Not me. It’s yours and only yours.
Indeed. But it’s also her primary tool for a man to work harder. Make her more valuable. Make him submissive so he won’t become another woman’s provider. This is a war over resources and viable children. It’s going on under our noses.Some really get off submitting men in a "pvssy trance". Its whipping a man without giving anything.
You are not wrong. There is more to people than that. In this world, suppressed as we are, biology is the lower end of the spectrum and is the standard default survival state.At some point you have to entertain the notion that humans are not animals. Reduced to nature, absent of any moral compass or code, sure, we act like them. But that is not the true intent here, and we are not designed to be mere beasts.
The answer is religion.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Even a celebrity or athlete is used for his attention, access to his resources access to his popularity and the juice for good gossip. She maybe sexually attracted but still using him.Indeed. But it’s also her primary tool for a man to work harder. Make her more valuable. Make him submissive so he won’t become another woman’s provider. This is a war over resources and viable children. It’s going on under our noses.
I know you’ve read this idea...a woman is attracted to a man who has already been approved, vetted etc by other women. A married man. A man already approved as dependable.
Approved or vetted for what? Nobody ever answered that little gem. He’s proven to be a reliable potential resource provider. There is no real liking of this man. No real affinity for this man. This is about seeing if she can get those resources from a proven resource provider. A cuck. Lol
Now a successful man on his path (he only has to be working on it. Success not required), is the real gem. The one they really want. They want to secure their survival and the feeding of their laziness and idle life of ease, gossip, and general trouble making drama.
They are not affraid to exercise their power.Some really get off submitting men in a "pvssy trance". Its whipping a man without giving anything.
They may have likened hot woman to being cheated on and getting less benefits.I think a lot of these guys who marry these fat single mothers are convinced they're not going to do any better. And maybe their life experiences actually confirm that belief (the attractive women around them pursue other men, but never them). I would think the answer would be in self improvement and in being more proactive, but some guys just have poor self esteem. Not necessarily poor self esteem overall, but poor self esteem when it comes to women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.