I'm trying to get exact number of average reply rates. From what I'm reading people are claiming PUA's saying men with "strong profiles" get reply rates of about 2-5 percent.
Anyway, I mostly use Match because you can see if the message is read. For example my messages that are actually read by someone I'd say I get a reply rate of about 12 percent.
Now granted I'm generally only messaging women who look looks wise 7 to 8 range that includes ones only 5 ft tall but otherwise still cute. I wont message anything lower.
Anyway, after a day or two many of them ghost me. I admit I've done it too. Like one really cute one lived 30 miles away and wanted to meet up by her and I ghosted her because I didn't feel like driving the distance. She was listed only 5 foot and looked it. Otherwise in good shape and pretty face. Otherwise the others flake after a couple days.
Some say I talk to much back and forth instead of asking them out sooner and they move on or find someone else.
Also, I'm 35 and most of my replies are in the 23 to 31 age range. The older ones don't reply as much and seem more flaky. The problem I have is in the face I look extremely young for my age. I even get carded for lotto tickets and I shave and don't grow a beard. Could the older women want someone who looks more manly?
And that's why tonight when that hot 39 yr old threw herself to meet up with me so fast like that I was literally floored and left me scratching my heard. I mean, she looked young too but still looked her age. I just had to wonder why. For sure there has to be more manly looking men.
So what can I do to get them to stop losing interest? On other forums they said to not d*ck around messaging back and forth. I do know when I send my original messages when I send longer, detailed ones and detail stuff about their profile showing I read their entire profile they tend to reply more often to me than sending short, generic ones out. It seems quality of quantity works better despite what others say.
Anyway, I mostly use Match because you can see if the message is read. For example my messages that are actually read by someone I'd say I get a reply rate of about 12 percent.
Now granted I'm generally only messaging women who look looks wise 7 to 8 range that includes ones only 5 ft tall but otherwise still cute. I wont message anything lower.
Anyway, after a day or two many of them ghost me. I admit I've done it too. Like one really cute one lived 30 miles away and wanted to meet up by her and I ghosted her because I didn't feel like driving the distance. She was listed only 5 foot and looked it. Otherwise in good shape and pretty face. Otherwise the others flake after a couple days.
Some say I talk to much back and forth instead of asking them out sooner and they move on or find someone else.
Also, I'm 35 and most of my replies are in the 23 to 31 age range. The older ones don't reply as much and seem more flaky. The problem I have is in the face I look extremely young for my age. I even get carded for lotto tickets and I shave and don't grow a beard. Could the older women want someone who looks more manly?
And that's why tonight when that hot 39 yr old threw herself to meet up with me so fast like that I was literally floored and left me scratching my heard. I mean, she looked young too but still looked her age. I just had to wonder why. For sure there has to be more manly looking men.
So what can I do to get them to stop losing interest? On other forums they said to not d*ck around messaging back and forth. I do know when I send my original messages when I send longer, detailed ones and detail stuff about their profile showing I read their entire profile they tend to reply more often to me than sending short, generic ones out. It seems quality of quantity works better despite what others say.
