flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Ive had this a couple time with women I’ve dated. And am just now experiencing it with my current relationship.
I have a tendency - if ones so inclined to call it that - to be very obersavtional on my surroundings. I enjoy taking everything in. So I am usually looking around a fair bit, however I’m still very engaged in my conversations with my girlfriends. Even going for walks I look around. Nothing in particular, just taking life in.
Now, my girlfriends have stated that when I look around that I’m looking at other women. Which I’m actually not at all. But in their heads they truly think I am. Doesn’t cause huge drama but they bring it up often enough. Like last night I was at a concert and I was looking around at everything and my current girlfriend said “I’ve finally figured out your gazing; you look at women who are different from the rest”. Which I literally wasn’t at all haha. I told her she’s off and that’s not it. Then she said it doesn’t even bother her much at all and it’s normal. But clearly she cares if she’s brought it up twice lately.
When a woman thinks this, what is she trying to do or say?
I have a tendency - if ones so inclined to call it that - to be very obersavtional on my surroundings. I enjoy taking everything in. So I am usually looking around a fair bit, however I’m still very engaged in my conversations with my girlfriends. Even going for walks I look around. Nothing in particular, just taking life in.
Now, my girlfriends have stated that when I look around that I’m looking at other women. Which I’m actually not at all. But in their heads they truly think I am. Doesn’t cause huge drama but they bring it up often enough. Like last night I was at a concert and I was looking around at everything and my current girlfriend said “I’ve finally figured out your gazing; you look at women who are different from the rest”. Which I literally wasn’t at all haha. I told her she’s off and that’s not it. Then she said it doesn’t even bother her much at all and it’s normal. But clearly she cares if she’s brought it up twice lately.
When a woman thinks this, what is she trying to do or say?