recently ive been going out with this girl. She seems to like me a lot. Recently there were a couple of deaths in her family, and friends, and she said she just wanted to be friends. when i asked why the sudden change she said because she went home and found she still have feelings for someone who she knows will never go out with her again. she says she liked me and she still does but doesnt want to admit it. where do i go frome here. stop trying, or what?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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