"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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recently ive been going out with this girl. She seems to like me a lot. Recently there were a couple of deaths in her family, and friends, and she said she just wanted to be friends. when i asked why the sudden change she said because she went home and found she still have feelings for someone who she knows will never go out with her again. she says she liked me and she still does but doesnt want to admit it. where do i go frome here. stop trying, or what?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bonhomme

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Go for others

Go for others, and -- as David DeAngelo says, give her the gift of missing you. Then I bet she'll come back to you before long.

And if you find another gal, well, she had her chance but she blew it. Take a gal who's into reality over one who's into fantasy any time.
 

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Re: Go for others

Originally posted by Bonhomme
Go for others, and -- as David DeAngelo says, give her the gift of missing you. Then I bet she'll come back to you before long.

And if you find another gal, well, she had her chance but she blew it. Take a gal who's into reality over one who's into fantasy any time.
This is true. Go for girls that actually knows that she wants to spend time with you.
 

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Well, and I may get critcized for saying this, I think you should find some other love interest but at the same time keep in touch. I say this because it sounds like she's going through a pretty rough time right now and could use someone to talk to..
 
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