"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is there to look forward in life?

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So I am 21 years old and will be turning 22 next year. I am in my last year at college and will be made redundant at my job by the end of the month (office type job).

I really enjoyed my job. Cool atmosphere, very chill, great culture, cute girls. Had a lot of success meeting girls at work and always went out at the end of my shift. It pretty much gave me a reason to get up in the morning and an eagerness to see my work mates. Now that we are closing chances are we will all lose contact so no more going out.

Now i have to go and find a new most likely very boring (full time) job by next year. Was going to do another degree while working but might have to change plans.

The thought of working 9 to 5 is really depressing. And if im working full time i dont really have a reason for making money except for paying rent and food.

Dont want to sound depressed, I understand that there are people who are 50 and lose their jobs with a family to support.

I have no one to support except myself. I have hobbies and work out. I dont have a gf and didnt need one to be happy when I was working.

Work, pay bills, get married have kids blah blah

Suggestions? and what is your passion in life that keeps you going everyday?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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right now there are many many people all around the world, in hospitals, fighting for each heartbeat and breath, toddlers, new borns, the elderly, young people who wont ever kiss a girl or a boy. there are people who literally dont know where their next meal is coming from or if there will be another one. people going about their business and not knowing some F ucker is going to blow themselves up next to them in the market they are going to.
what is there to look forward too? seriously?
 

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If things are going great now, why shouldn't they later just because
circumstances change?
 
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