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What is the solution in this situation?

captain55

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Most women don't disrespect guys they feel are above them on Smv because they know the guy can always do better than them.

But what happens when you are disrespected by a girl that KNOWS you have tons of options? Other than leaving the chick is there really a solution?

I'm just thinking back to how my ex used to treat me. All her friends wanted to **** me and she always used to get jealous of women looking at me and was extremely possessive...she knew I could do better than her but I still felt like I never got the respect I wanted so I finally left her ass and haven't looked back. Still pisses me off to this day how she treated me to this day though. Should of left sooner. I felt like she just had no respect for men in general because she grew up without a father around and never trusted men
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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I felt like she just had no respect for men in general because she grew up without a father around and never trusted men
Bingo. It has Nothing to do with your Smv, but Everthing to do with her personal Daddy issues…
There is no solution unless she gets professional help.

She wants a man, then gets one and doesn’t respect him, lose lose for her…
 
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devilkingx2

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I'm just thinking back to how my ex used to treat me. All her friends wanted to **** me and she always used to get jealous of women looking at me and was extremely possessive...she knew I could do better than her but I still felt like I never got the respect I wanted so I finally left her ass and haven't looked back. Still pisses me off to this day how she treated me to this day though. Should of left sooner. I felt like she just had no respect for men in general because she grew up without a father around and never trusted men
how did she treat you badly? is it possible that at the time you wanted particularly special treatment as opposed to her treating you badly?
 

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"who can stand before jealously?"

you did good...the best thing to do, is to leave.
 

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Thats good question. Why then she was in relationship with you if she thought she's higher SMV? Either she wasnt higher SMV, or she had no options, or shes an exception to SMV rules.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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