"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is the solution in this situation?

captain55

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Most women don't disrespect guys they feel are above them on Smv because they know the guy can always do better than them.

But what happens when you are disrespected by a girl that KNOWS you have tons of options? Other than leaving the chick is there really a solution?

I'm just thinking back to how my ex used to treat me. All her friends wanted to **** me and she always used to get jealous of women looking at me and was extremely possessive...she knew I could do better than her but I still felt like I never got the respect I wanted so I finally left her ass and haven't looked back. Still pisses me off to this day how she treated me to this day though. Should of left sooner. I felt like she just had no respect for men in general because she grew up without a father around and never trusted men
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Billtx49

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I felt like she just had no respect for men in general because she grew up without a father around and never trusted men
Bingo. It has Nothing to do with your Smv, but Everthing to do with her personal Daddy issues…
There is no solution unless she gets professional help.

She wants a man, then gets one and doesn’t respect him, lose lose for her…
 
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devilkingx2

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I'm just thinking back to how my ex used to treat me. All her friends wanted to **** me and she always used to get jealous of women looking at me and was extremely possessive...she knew I could do better than her but I still felt like I never got the respect I wanted so I finally left her ass and haven't looked back. Still pisses me off to this day how she treated me to this day though. Should of left sooner. I felt like she just had no respect for men in general because she grew up without a father around and never trusted men
how did she treat you badly? is it possible that at the time you wanted particularly special treatment as opposed to her treating you badly?
 

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"who can stand before jealously?"

you did good...the best thing to do, is to leave.
 

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Thats good question. Why then she was in relationship with you if she thought she's higher SMV? Either she wasnt higher SMV, or she had no options, or shes an exception to SMV rules.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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