"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is the REAL definition of a c0ck BLOCK???

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I'll keep it short...

I liked a girl who worked at a restaurant a few doors down. I met her once in passing, and a fun convo. A "buddy" and i both know the manager of this place, and we occasionally all go out to clubs together. I asked the manager about this "new girl", and he told me she was single, and really, really sweet. I told him to invite her the next time we all head out.

My "buddy" wanted to see who this chick was, and went into the restaurant. He came back, told me that she wasn't his style, but still kinda hot...and said i should go for it.

I had a busy week and found out later that they all went out to a club together. My "buddy" didn't invite me (knowing i wanted to mack her). 1 week later the same thing.

I found out last night that he's now fvcking her.

This is the 4th time in the last 3 months that i had an interest in a chick, and he's either flirted with them completely, c0ck-blocking me, and/or tried fvcking them...and succeeded.

I approached him about the other chicks, and he says that what he is doing isn't considered "c0ck-blocking". He considers it a "block" if i'm completely macking a chick (who i'm about to fvck), and he interferes...and said "if i don't think you have a chance or any play, i'll mack her...if you don't have any play...it's not a block."

Whatever.

I kinda pissed at that. Am i right here?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quit trying to use him as an avenue to hook up with women. He's preventing you from succeeding with women by jumping at the opportunity first. He's destroying any competition the two of you have. It's still a c0ckblock.
 
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No offense, but why do you still talk to this guy? Get some friends that are more at your level and don't treat you like cra p.

Seriously, he's not worth the friendship. As for the chicks, try going up to them yourself, don't wait for a clubbing group; if you go out in a crowd you'll always find an excuse not to talk w them.
 
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Actually...we only really hangout because we work together. I pretty much decided yesterday to bail on the friendship. I just wanted to make sure i wasn't over reacting
 
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