There are guys in here who spin plates. I am doing that myself. Right now I have 2 solid plates who give me regular sex and one that is on and off. One of my plates, what I considered the highest value one decided to leave tonight. I did not whine or beg, nothing, she even started crying bla bla bla. I mean, for the guys who do this, do you ever feel like having one solid woman would be better than just spinning 4 or 5 plates? Cause we are the point where we can do it and most men can't, but I am curious about this one.
Every man should have the experience of spinning plates. It gives you a true inner self confidence regarding women. You know that you’ll never be alone unless you want to. You know that if you leave the woman you’re with, there will be others for you.
Not too long ago I was spinning plates. At one point I was spinning 4 at once. It’s an interesting realization when you set your eyes on a woman that you want, and you know that she’ll be in bed with you soon. It’s a great feeling. Then eventually, you get to the point where you have all the women you want.
However, the other side of that is fully realizing, truly seeing that women are basically the same. They all come equipped with the same firmware.
Then it becomes a question of what do you really want with regard to women.
What happened for me was a met a woman who had the qualities that I wanted in a woman for an LTR. She honestly seems to have the old fashioned sense of morality that many men want for an LTR. And she’s shown me with her actions how much she values me.
However, on my end, I don’t have oneitis. I’ll never have oneitis again. So I’ll stay with her as long as it works.
The up side is I’m not wasting as much time and effort spinning plates. And beyond that, I’ll admit that there’s a closeness, an intimacy between the two of us that I didn’t experience while spinning plates.
So maybe you’re realizing that eventually want to do something other than just spinning plates.
-Augustus-
