SW15
Master Don Juan
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The worst metro areas are the most liberal ones, most hardcore feminist ones. I named the 4 in the United States that fit that description.jlaix lives in San Fran. I saw old threads on rsd. It seems anywhere that is liberal is garbage for pickup or high risk of false accusations. I recall a radio host getting false accusations. I remember rsd Tyler trashing women from Seattle. I once had a layover. It reminded me of the scene in nip tuck where Christian Troy does cosmetic surgery on a woman and gives her a paper bag after to smash her in. Lulz
It also doesn't help that in most U.S. most areas, there are more single men than single women. Denver is a sausage fest partially because there are more men into outdoorsy, athletic things than women. San Diego is a sausage fest because of the multiple nearby military bases. The worst ratios in the United States are found in the Western half of the contiguous United States.
Roosh V was a microbiologist for 6 years before getting bigger as a part time blogger. Roosh published "Bang" around the time he quit microbiology and then become a full time pickup artist/blogger. Roosh didn't attract a lot of hatred until he deviated away from pickup full time and started getting into more cultural topics. Yes, culture affects game, but getting into culture and possibly politics leads to bad things. An argument can be made that Roosh should have stayed small, kept part time blogging, and kept his microbiologist job for stability. STEM occupations are always in demand.Pickup is not a ideal career path. Curious to know what Tusks exit strategy. Unless **** you money, rooshv and others are screwed. There's no coming back to corporate.
2013 was the year I turned 30 and realized that I needed a more sustainable version of game to meet women. That's when I shifted from a primarily night game pickup model to a primarily day game model. We are similar in thought.
Part of why I became a day game guy around age 30 is that I was never really good at staying up late at night. It was always a challenge to get beyond 12 AM and stay fiercely alert to be on the top of my game. Before 2013, I had done some approaching outdoors while walking/hiking in one city and done a little bit of fitness class approaching in 2012. I never did grocery store approaching and mall/other retail area approaching. I wanted to be able to meet women during the day on weekends and not have to stay up late. I should have started as a day game specialist earlier in life. The impetus of turning 30 pushed me into it.At least one of us has common sense. In 2013, I was rampaging the club scene. Day game in Trafalgar square. The lockdown killed night life. I don't know how it comes back. The London model is gold right now. I think day games complexity is next level. I love it.
As men get into their 30s, there are fewer like minded men. Fewer like minded men was part of why I focused on day game, because you don't need wings to day game. You can roll solo with night game and it matters less than most men think, but day game is more suited to rolling solo. A lot of men surrender and do the beta thing with whatever woman they are with around their late 20s/early 30s. The first wave of men tend to partner off with their high school or college sweethearts. There's often a flurry of marriages in a social circle somewhere between 25-33 for most men, depending on a number of factors. A lot of men see this flurry of marriages and then settle down with the girlfriend they have during this flurry due to the social pressures of the circle.Learn to blend in. I don't show up to a old high school or college buddy's place with a girl age 18 or 21. I blend in. I don't red pill married guys or anything of the kind. It's not warranted. It does come out in the club but I am typically discrete. Actions are red pill. I spit game and I have a flirt but I am otherwise discrete. ToddV is boring but good game is. It is not a highlight reel Infield.
I do think that it will get harder with time. I watched my older pals settle down. Most of my group too. Then, my younger pals are going to out having kids or married. I am happy for buds assuming that is what they want. I am skeptical. I think some picked it whereas, others are blue pill. I know that a lot of people are jumpy to the beaten path just cause. A miniscule amount are legit. Met young and built a life. Religious too.
I was listening to Peterson. He was talking about the amount of people you meet and date. The amount that you have chemistry with and actually get on. The number of people increases with time naturally but the amount of chemistry seemingly declines with time. The complexity increases over time. People have kids. They are jaded. They bring drama and other crap with age. Women are more entitled now than ever before and are waiting till 30 before seeking longevity of a marriage. Ironic given fertility.
I agree with Peterson on that. Relationships that form earlier in life can be better if they sustain the test of time. Most don't though.