What is the max sexual activity that the girl should have before she should be disqualified for LTR

[evan12]

In the past it was virgin or not , but currently after most of the girls are not virgins , how much you guys are will to accept past sexual activity , I feel like most of the women have a decent amount of sexual activity in college, so how do you measure that .
Counting by number of serious bf is not an option in these social media days , as many girls these days keeping themselves to themselves without having any bf , so they can have more sexual freedom.(Even statiscts say girls are less caring about fiding a bf )

 

[Who Dares Win]

Its not simply a number, I consider who and what.

A girl giving her ass to some guy just cause he was popular lose many more points than a girl who had sex with 4 guys who were all their boyfriends.

Just to explain briefly the way I think, anyway Im not looking for a wife nor growing a family therefore my standards are much lower than what they would be otherwise.

I dont need to ask nor I need to know, I can read 90% of a girl in 2 minute and the remaning 10 in the other 58.

If you are a good observer you can read people, just like they can tell the winner from the loser, the womanizer from the afc so men can tell the slvt from the good girl as long as they listen at their gut.

My guts tell me what a girl is good for and from the moment I started listening at it and calibrating the sensation with observation, I never committed a mistake of evaluation.

As a general rule to consider a girl mine its mandatory that she gives to me something that she never gave to anyone before me, wheter is her pink ass, a blowj0b with swallow or a 3some.

How do I know if she did or not? I ask and wheter she lies or not I see it, she cant fake her dilated pupils or microexpression nor change her body language.

 

[AttackFormation]

The right answer in a time when practically all girls are highly sexually active is not to disqualify girls for LTRs. It's to disqualify investing yourself emotionally in LTRs. Which leads to the conclusion that it's meaningless to have a LTR, because emotional investment is the entire point of them. That of course arrives at the same conclusion as just the first sentence (don't bother with LTRs), but the reasons why were thought through more.

Why is a girl being sexually active important? because on a primal level she is building the emotional bond with others as women have sex with someone because they want to or have bonded with them due to their biology (unless they're dysfunctional and/or actively cuckolding), and that also means her having sex with others = you could be cuckolded. We identify women who have sex without forming bonds as dysfunctional & dangerous and women who have formed bonds through sex as used up.

So in the biological sense, it's a mentally healthy virgin or nothing.

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Now for the practicality. Maybe you would like to get a companion some day. Kids. You feel the pull toward a healthy virgin, but you've met someone you like a lot who really likes you, turns you on and she has the same kinks, music taste, whatever as you. When this happens there are no rules except what your gut and the red pill (for most guys, gut without red pill temperance = blue pill) say to determine if you can deal with her and if her emotion for you is strong enough and genuine or not.

 

[El Payaso]

Anywhere between 200 and 600 guys.

 

[LiveFreeX]

any more than her own hand.

 

[cola]

Why does it matter? Ask her does she have any stds or has she ever cheated. Those are the REAL disqualifiers..
Only guys who havent had sex a lot care about how many guys she has had..

If a girl asked me how many women ive slept with I couldnt even count because it's so many I dont even remember.. So how could I care about how many guys she has slept with?
When I could count my lays on my hand I cared about **** like this, now its irrelevant.

**** her past, how does she treat YOU..

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Anywhere between 200 and 600 guys.

Were do you find those at?

 

[evan12]

The right answer in a time when practically all girls are highly sexually active is not to disqualify girls for LTRs. It's to disqualify investing yourself emotionally in LTRs. Which leads to the conclusion that it's meaningless to have a LTR, because emotional investment is the entire point of them. That of course arrives at the same conclusion as just the first sentence (don't bother with LTRs), but the reasons why were thought through more.

Why is a girl being sexually active important? because on a primal level she is building the emotional bond with others as women have sex with someone because they want to or have bonded with them due to their biology (unless they're dysfunctional and/or actively cuckolding), and that also means her having sex with others = you could be cuckolded. We identify women who have sex without forming bonds as dysfunctional & dangerous and women who have formed bonds through sex as used up.

So in the biological sense, it's a mentally healthy virgin or nothing.

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Now for the practicality. Maybe you would like to get a companion some day. Kids. You feel the pull toward a healthy virgin, but you've met someone you like a lot who really likes you, turns you on and she has the same kinks, music taste, whatever as you. When this happens there are no rules except what your gut and the red pill (for most guys, gut without red pill temperance = blue pill) say to determine if you can deal with her and if her emotion for you is strong enough and genuine or not.

That is right , when it comes to LTR , you think twice about the woman you are with, but these days it is really hard to know her past , she may tell you she have 2 bf in the past while in reality had sex with 50 man.
So asking a girl like some suggested is something useless she will just say what is socially acceptable or what cannot be hidden.

 

[l__i__l]

I had it set at 3.
However 99% of women seem to pass my seemingly relaxed screening test.
Nowdays I unsuspectingly plant a counter in their hooch, which triggers and counts upon any bodily insertion.
The recent girl who aced my screening test is currently sitting on 61 after one week.
If you don't have a hooch counter like I have, it doesn't matter what they tell you.

 

[RangerMIke]

It all depends on your personal proclivities. For me... since LTR is NEVER an option then I really don't care if the woman was the wh0re of Babylon, as long as she is free of desease.

BUT I will say that it would bother me if I was with a woman that many of my friends had been with... that would be wierd.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Your measure of a man is directly related to the age of the pvssy you can pull. The more inexperienced it is, the higher you score.

 

[zinc4]

I will only marry a virgin. Any more than three though and she has baggage and is a ho....fact.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Why does it matter? Ask her does she have any stds or has she ever cheated. Those are the REAL disqualifiers..
Only guys who havent had sex a lot care about how many guys she has had..

If a girl asked me how many women ive slept with I couldnt even count because it's so many I dont even remember.. So how could I care about how many guys she has slept with?
When I could count my lays on my hand I cared about **** like this, now its irrelevant.

**** her past, how does she treat YOU..

I see what you're saying but you dont want to be with a girl who has a torn up canoe, there's probably not as much fun in that thing as if you were with someone else.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm not convinced that there is a way to know for sure how many they've slept with.

Some of us without super high partner counts find ones that have had too many ****s to be more abrasive psychologically and not good to connect with. Also many go about the sex act like it's business more than sharing feelings.

 

[zinc4]

Women can't emotional nor mentally be stable after too many sex partners....fact...there are studies that prove this and I know from experience have seen the proof over and over myself.

Hos can't turn back....damaged goods are damae.

 

[devilkingx2]

As long as she is faithful (no cheating) and loyal (not going to dump me the first chance for the first reason she gets) and not holding out on me ("I used to do all that stuff, but I won't do it with you") then I don't care if it's 2 or 2,000

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Women can't emotional nor mentally be stable after too many sex partners....fact...there are studies that prove this and I know from experience have seen the proof over and over myself.

Hos can't turn back....damaged goods are damae.

You also believe they are more abrasive? That's been my finding. It's just little nuances, many that detract from the attraction once you are close to them.