Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is the logic behind this?

Swede54

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Well i hate a deep hate for my ex gf for a loooong time. We started talking again on aim, and i feel alot better? I feel alot better that i dont have this hate burrowed deep in me. But the thing is she was the only girl i ever loved, so there is still this desire in me. But i know it is the best thing for me if i say nothing to her about my feelings. Because i know they are probably gone for her. gah what to do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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You're brief contact with her is satisfying a phsycological craving that 's caused by her abscence.... Much like an addict gets relief by getting his fix.

You should do all you can to not keep in touch with her.... It's same way a drug user won't get over his habit if he keeps going back for a little more.

You won't move on if she keeps coming back and giving you this feeling.

That might sound really dry and scientific but that's the best way I can describe how you no longer hate her.....it won't last
 

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you arent over her yet.

when you get over her, you never even think of her anymore
 
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