"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is the ideal body size to attract women?

CarlitosWay

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thezenmachine said:
I own a gym and have worked as a trainer for quite a few years and have well over 10 years of experience in training of all different forms.

In my experience it really doesn't matter what women are attracted to. Different ones like different things, so you just have to go for what you like and what makes you happy. Like with most things game matters the most, so if you can create attraction for a women you can get her anyway. Being fit and having a good body (whatever that is to YOU) is icing on the cake and just makes it a easier. But a girl isn't going to turn you down because you don't have her ideal body type if you do everything else correct.
Yep exactly!!! I love how some person posted a pic of a bodybuilder shredded to the bone in contest shape as if by some ridiculous notion they walk around like that all year long hahahahah......not so try bashing bodybuilders again buddy. .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drum&Bass

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Again, don't confuse a weightlifter/powerlifter's physique with that of a bodybuilder. I expect the vast majority of women would find this type of physique very attractive.
Ivan Stoitsov is the man. The power of olympic lifting right there. Hell, I even find his physique attractive and I'm perfectly straight. Call it the Fruity Rudy effect or whatever but he looks good.
He also tested positive for steroid use. Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).
 

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Drum&Bass said:
He also tested positive for steroid use. Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).
Damn, I didn't know that. Still, he was pretty impressive.
 

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teagan said:
Damn, I didn't know that. Still, he was pretty impressive.
those eastern europeans (and the USSR back in the day) love their performance enhancing drugs

you can defo get that body without steriods (or one close enougth that fits your bone structure)...it will just take longer and more work/dedication!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Drum&Bass said:
Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).

Too late. I talk to this type of weightlifter at my gym every day. The easy way out tempts me, too, from time to time.
 
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