"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is the ideal body size to attract women?

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thezenmachine said:
I own a gym and have worked as a trainer for quite a few years and have well over 10 years of experience in training of all different forms.

In my experience it really doesn't matter what women are attracted to. Different ones like different things, so you just have to go for what you like and what makes you happy. Like with most things game matters the most, so if you can create attraction for a women you can get her anyway. Being fit and having a good body (whatever that is to YOU) is icing on the cake and just makes it a easier. But a girl isn't going to turn you down because you don't have her ideal body type if you do everything else correct.
Yep exactly!!! I love how some person posted a pic of a bodybuilder shredded to the bone in contest shape as if by some ridiculous notion they walk around like that all year long hahahahah......not so try bashing bodybuilders again buddy. .
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Again, don't confuse a weightlifter/powerlifter's physique with that of a bodybuilder. I expect the vast majority of women would find this type of physique very attractive.
Ivan Stoitsov is the man. The power of olympic lifting right there. Hell, I even find his physique attractive and I'm perfectly straight. Call it the Fruity Rudy effect or whatever but he looks good.
He also tested positive for steroid use. Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).
 

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Drum&Bass said:
He also tested positive for steroid use. Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).
Damn, I didn't know that. Still, he was pretty impressive.
 

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teagan said:
Damn, I didn't know that. Still, he was pretty impressive.
those eastern europeans (and the USSR back in the day) love their performance enhancing drugs

you can defo get that body without steriods (or one close enougth that fits your bone structure)...it will just take longer and more work/dedication!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Drum&Bass said:
Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).

Too late. I talk to this type of weightlifter at my gym every day. The easy way out tempts me, too, from time to time.
 
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