"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is the ideal body size to attract women?

CarlitosWay

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thezenmachine said:
I own a gym and have worked as a trainer for quite a few years and have well over 10 years of experience in training of all different forms.

In my experience it really doesn't matter what women are attracted to. Different ones like different things, so you just have to go for what you like and what makes you happy. Like with most things game matters the most, so if you can create attraction for a women you can get her anyway. Being fit and having a good body (whatever that is to YOU) is icing on the cake and just makes it a easier. But a girl isn't going to turn you down because you don't have her ideal body type if you do everything else correct.
Yep exactly!!! I love how some person posted a pic of a bodybuilder shredded to the bone in contest shape as if by some ridiculous notion they walk around like that all year long hahahahah......not so try bashing bodybuilders again buddy. .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Again, don't confuse a weightlifter/powerlifter's physique with that of a bodybuilder. I expect the vast majority of women would find this type of physique very attractive.
Ivan Stoitsov is the man. The power of olympic lifting right there. Hell, I even find his physique attractive and I'm perfectly straight. Call it the Fruity Rudy effect or whatever but he looks good.
He also tested positive for steroid use. Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).
 

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Drum&Bass said:
He also tested positive for steroid use. Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).
Damn, I didn't know that. Still, he was pretty impressive.
 

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teagan said:
Damn, I didn't know that. Still, he was pretty impressive.
those eastern europeans (and the USSR back in the day) love their performance enhancing drugs

you can defo get that body without steriods (or one close enougth that fits your bone structure)...it will just take longer and more work/dedication!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Drum&Bass said:
Hopefully no one starts taking steroids to look good for women (unless your making money from it).

Too late. I talk to this type of weightlifter at my gym every day. The easy way out tempts me, too, from time to time.
 
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