"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what is the hetero way to get a tan?

TheFlyingMan

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haha I think getting a tan is dangerous I read up on skin cancer and tanning. After that I decided to stay pasty. Seriously, use google and read a few articles.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel

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I've met some real hot women at the tanning salon and it's so easy to start conversation while you're waiting. It really is the ideal place for pick ups!

A few guys try to call me gay, but why would I care? I'm too confident to let a few little digs get to me, and besides, they know my tan looks good and would do the same if they had the confidence to take the gay jokes etc.
 

Tomatoes

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I will only bother getting a tan when its a little warmer....Freezing in UK.

When my pool is opened for the summer I will go in that then go lie in the sun for an hour or 2

Full on relaxation. :up:


Need to start gyming it again first.
 
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