Doc Love said theres a difference between testing and head games? He said that your women will continue test you even though marriage to keep you on your feet. It won't be as intense but they will always test you. But he said that woman shouldn't play head games with you....What's the difference?
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What is the difference between testing and head games?
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Ok, well, testing is mandatory for women...
Think about it, an attractive woman might get approached 5-10 times a week (or per night if she goes to clubs). The only way a woman can figure out who is worth the time to date, she must test.
Headgames, are more something that you get when her IL is low, and she's 'testing' to see how much of her BS you put up with. A guideline is the less BS you put up with the better.
Think about it, an attractive woman might get approached 5-10 times a week (or per night if she goes to clubs). The only way a woman can figure out who is worth the time to date, she must test.
Headgames, are more something that you get when her IL is low, and she's 'testing' to see how much of her BS you put up with. A guideline is the less BS you put up with the better.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
One test is the emotional test. Women by nature are more moody than men. She'll often want a guy that will be strong for her emotionally when she isn't (like her rock so-to-speak). This test will come early. Keeping your cool and not trying to solve the problem right away will bid you well with this test.
A person can fall into that Bermuda-like Triangle called the 'friendz zone', by being emotional or not as strong as she in times she is looking to lean on.
A person can fall into that Bermuda-like Triangle called the 'friendz zone', by being emotional or not as strong as she in times she is looking to lean on.
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Master Don Juan
Head games :
You: Let's go out for coffee on XXX at XXX
her : ughhh.... call me on XXX and we'll figure it out.
you : ok.
(You failed, gave up your power)
Testing :
her : I hate when guys stare at my boobs
me : Oh man, your not gonna like me cause I do that ALOT!!!
her : Why are guys such pigs?
me : Guys are not pigs, it's just the way we are designed, we're naturally attracted to boobs... get used to it.
her : blah blah blah
me : I'm sorry, I didn't hear you I was too busy staring at your breasts.
(3 tests, 3 passes because the focus was changed from guys having a breast staring problem to HER having the problem because she does not GET that guys like boobs)
You: Let's go out for coffee on XXX at XXX
her : ughhh.... call me on XXX and we'll figure it out.
you : ok.
(You failed, gave up your power)
Testing :
her : I hate when guys stare at my boobs
me : Oh man, your not gonna like me cause I do that ALOT!!!
her : Why are guys such pigs?
me : Guys are not pigs, it's just the way we are designed, we're naturally attracted to boobs... get used to it.
her : blah blah blah
me : I'm sorry, I didn't hear you I was too busy staring at your breasts.
(3 tests, 3 passes because the focus was changed from guys having a breast staring problem to HER having the problem because she does not GET that guys like boobs)
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DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
You do not know what the f-uck you're talking about.
It seems to me tests come in many ways.
Women will test your interest level also. The great rule I've been told is that: If it feels like a test and it's pertinent to the situation..it's a test.
Really..a woman just wants a man to stand for something and not be afraid of expressing it through action. It really has to do with being honest and thinking for yourself. I personally get bored really quick with a woman who has no opinions or passions in life.
If you ask someone what they've been up to and they respond with "Work..(silence)" That is BORING. That is LAME..That is not ATTRACTIVE. To ANYONE.
There is much more to be said, but I'll leave that to more experienced guys to talk about.
Good luck!
Women will test your interest level also. The great rule I've been told is that: If it feels like a test and it's pertinent to the situation..it's a test.
Really..a woman just wants a man to stand for something and not be afraid of expressing it through action. It really has to do with being honest and thinking for yourself. I personally get bored really quick with a woman who has no opinions or passions in life.
If you ask someone what they've been up to and they respond with "Work..(silence)" That is BORING. That is LAME..That is not ATTRACTIVE. To ANYONE.
There is much more to be said, but I'll leave that to more experienced guys to talk about.
Good luck!