"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is the deal with this girl?

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I met a girl on a trip. During the night of our hotel stay, we had a party. We played games together in a group. I injured two of my fingers during the party.

Next day when we were having breakfast in the restaurant, she waved at me and I waved back. Later, when she was walking past me, she stopped and gave me two bandages and said she know I hurt my fingers last night. I accepted them and said thank you. After that, I noticed her looking at me a lot.

When the trip was over, I found her on facebook and added her. We messaged for a bit, and I said that I didn't get the chance to get her number during the trip, and if she text, I will text her instead. I basically hint at her for her number. She has read my message, but didn't reply back.

I know I should had gone up to her and got her number during the trip. Learned my mistake.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Raymond said:
I know I should had gone up to her and got her number during the trip. Learned my mistake.
Answered you own question. Then you chased her over FB, and asked for her number in a weaker position.
 

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She has also disappeared from my facebook chat sidebar, but is still friend with me.

Edit: reappeared, maybe fb is just weird.
 
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inkedDJ said:
Answered you own question. Then you chased her over FB, and asked for her number in a weaker position.
Yeah, I know. I will not make the same mistake in the future.
 

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I don't think she would have given you her number in person either

if she wanted you to have it, you'd have it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's what baffle me. Why was she showing interests if she's not interested.

This has happened to me many times. Girls showing interests, but when I move forward, I get rejected.
 

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Give it time. You already messed it up, so just wait till she replies and be done with it if she doesn't.

She may respond due to the attention she had during said trip, but do not let it take much time or her interest would decrease to zero.
 
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