"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obviously, if a girl likes you enough, she will give you her number.... but what if a girl is on the fence about you?

Sometimes asking for a number will put the girl on guard. So Snapchat? FaceBook? I don't use social media because I don't want people to find out my real name until I'm ready to tell them myself about my criminal record, but that's besides the point.

As a side question, I met this girl on Tinder a few months ago when I was playing around going on Tinder in other countries. She's from the Philippines if I remember correctly. She told me she's visiting Orlando in October and wants to ****. She's only been with one guy in her whole life.

I just don't want to mess it up. I rarely talk to her, maybe once every 3 weeks just to say hi and so she doesn't completely forget about me.

I am not 100% positive that she will contact me in October, so I want to find out when she's coming so we can meet. It would be nice to have sex FOR FREE!!! Lol.

I told her I just want to meet her in a hotel room and she was okay with that.

I want to **** her with my awesome bionic d !ck implant.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sometimes asking for a number will put the girl on guard.
This is true, sometimes it will. That should be her loss and not yours though. You should ask for numbers, it's a good test. If she doesn't give it you can be certain she's not interested and stop wasting your time on her. Asking for a number is a legit and normal thing to do in the dating game. Don't be so afraid of not getting a woman, you can't win them all anyways no matter what you do. But you'll probably win more by asking for numbers, if she's on the fence she's not interested enough to be worth your attention.

I want to **** her with my awesome bionic d !ck implant.
I don't think dick implants is something to brag about. It says something about a man and it's not positive. Just like a girl with implants screams of insecurity to me.
 
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This is true, sometimes it will. That should be her loss and not yours though. You should ask for numbers, it's a good test. If she doesn't give it you can be certain she's not interested and stop wasting your time on her. Asking for a number is a legit and normal thing to do in the dating game. Don't be so afraid of not getting a woman, you can't win them all anyways no matter what you do. But you'll probably win more by asking for numbers, if she's on the fence she's not interested enough to be worth your attention.


I don't think dick implants is something to brag about. It says something about a man and it's not positive. Just like a girl with implants screams of insecurity to me.
A d! ck implant does not serve the same purpose as breast implants. It is not plastic surgery.
 

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A d! ck implant does not serve the same purpose as breast implants. It is not plastic surgery.
Oh, sorry. I was thinking about penis enlargement. What you've got is to make it stiff because of erectile dysfunction right?

In that case you're right, it's not comparable and much less eyebrow raising.
 
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Oh, sorry. I was thinking about penis enlargement. What you've got is to make it stiff because of erectile dysfunction right?

In that case you're right, it's not comparable and much less eyebrow raising.
Except for the fact that I also got a silicone injection last October to make it thicker. Lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well... Now my eyebrows are raised again.
I measured my d !ck. It was 4" girth. I looked up what was average. Average is 5".

I wasn't gonna let a silly little thing like d !ck size gonna get in my way, so I had it thickened.

It's just being real. Girls like thicker d! cks.
 

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I measured my d !ck. It was 4" girth. I looked up what was average. Average is 5".

I wasn't gonna let a silly little thing like d !ck size gonna get in my way, so I had it thickened.

It's just being real. Girls like thicker d! cks.
Wow
 
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