"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is the best Vietnam War movie

Best Vietnam War Movie?

  • Apocalypse Now (Martin Sheen)

    Votes: 5 26.3%
  • Casualties of War (Michael J. Fox)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Full Metal Jacket (Matthew Modine)

    Votes: 8 42.1%
  • Platoon (Charlie Sheen)

    Votes: 6 31.6%
  • We Were Soldiers (Mel Gibson)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    19

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not saying it was the best, but also Hamburger Hill was a Vietnam movie.

I liked platoon. Funny you posted this I read about Apocalypse Now on wiki yesterday. Martin Sheen almost had a heart attack during it, and he was really struggling with alcohol at the time.
 

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Ricky said:
Not saying it was the best, but also Hamburger Hill was a Vietnam movie.

I liked platoon. Funny you posted this I read about Apocalypse Now on wiki yesterday. Martin Sheen almost had a heart attack during it, and he was really struggling with alcohol at the time.
Yes, Hamburger Hill was not a bad movie. Based on a true story I think as well....I forgot about that one.
 

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Platoon is not just the best Vietnam move, but one of the best movies I've seen. Really sobering stuff.

Casualties of War was also incredible too, and equally disturbing and objective.

They really put heroic all-American propaganda movies like Saving Private Ryan and Pearl Harbour into perspective.
 

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I liked We were soldiers. Apocalypse now was kinda interesting considering its a representation of Heart of Darkness by Conrad
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jariel said:
Platoon is not just the best Vietnam move, but one of the best movies I've seen. Really sobering stuff.

Casualties of War was also incredible too, and equally disturbing and objective.

They really put heroic all-American propaganda movies like Saving Private Ryan and Pearl Harbour into perspective.

Pearl Harbor sucked. The only scenes that were well done was the bombing of Pearl Harbor. It annoyed me they had two crummy actors who play the heroes, one who makes you falsely believe the Americans played a "huge" part in the Battle of Britain. Only 7 Americans fought in the Battle of Britain.
 

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hamburger hill was named after a battle in vietnam in which my father fought at.
 

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you left out the best one i think : born on the fourth of july with tom cruise ..

it won like 10 oscars.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KneghtRyder said:
you left out the best one i think : born on the fourth of july with tom cruise ..

it won like 10 oscars.
Born on the 4th of July was a good movie (I read the book) but the majority of the story DOES NOT take place in Vietnam, so it does not count.
 

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Platoon out of that list but I'd say its tied with Born on the Fourth of July.
 

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See the movie tigerland it was a bomb ih the early 90's but it is an awesome flick check it out:0
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Most movie critics agree that Apocalypse Now is the best wartime movie ever. I'm not saying I agree with them. I personally love platoon and full metal jacket the most.
 

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Skel said:
Most movie critics agree that Apocalypse Now is the best wartime movie ever. I'm not saying I agree with them. I personally love platoon and full metal jacket the most.
I saw Apocalypse now once and I thought it was way too wierd and not realistic. However, maybe cult like stuff really did go on like that.
 

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e-lie said:
See the movie tigerland it was a bomb ih the early 90's but it is an awesome flick check it out:0
Tigerland was such a letdown... I was fiending for a war movie at the time, and saw the cover. I didn't expect to get a chick-like drama flick.
 

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Bah. Phoney-baloney hollywood tripe about whiney american soldiers. The Vietnamese are just background props. No mention of the nasty shyt they went through.

We were soldiers was really good.
 

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BluEyes said:
Tigerland was such a letdown... I was fiending for a war movie at the time, and saw the cover. I didn't expect to get a chick-like drama flick.
Best DVD buy ever though. I paid $5.99 for Tigerland at Target and the movie is pretty good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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