What is the best time to exchange numbers OLD

[Epicwinguy]

I am mostly talking about Tinder. I am supposed to get that number pretty quickly in the conversation, but exactly how soon? And also, I read about a strategy where you give them your number and it weeds out the low interested women, but isn't this a bit risky since it leave you open to getting hacked?

 

[Bible_Belt]

I don't use Tinder, but on POF, I will say very quickly, "Hey I don't have pof on my phone. If you give me your number, we can text." And that is true, I don't. It is technically possible to run phone apps on a desktop pc, so you could still say that about Tinder.

 

[Konada]

In my experience, numbers mean sh!t nowadays. Most girls would gladly give you their number in hopes that you give them more attention without any intention of hanging out with you. In this case, I'd agree with Espi to put the cart before the horse.

"Let's go for a drink. Drop me your number and I'll text you soon."

 

[resilient]

In my experience, numbers mean sh!t nowadays. Most girls would gladly give you their number in hopes that you give them more attention without any intention of hanging out with you. In this case, I'd agree with Espi to put the cart before the horse.

"Let's go for a drink. Drop me your number and I'll text you soon."

Seriously, getting texts from guys these days seems to provide as much attention-validation as going out on dates these days.

 

[El Payaso]

When you feel you've built a decent rapport.

 

[Young OG]

Me: We should grab a drink sometime
Her: OK
Me: You should give me your number so we can set something up

 

[SgtSplacker]

I'll ask for the number after I have had the chance to ask a couple questions and the answers satisfy me. I make sure she realizes my approval and sees my interest growing then I ask.

Ask question, approve and amplify, repeat, repeat. Ask for number.

I control the interaction, I ask questions and screen them while keeping it light. I ask for the number. If she declines. I'll say well that's ok maybe we'll chat again sometime. I'll never say hi again unless she initiates. Sometimes they will give me their number next day or in a couple days. Women don't know what they want initially, sometimes you have to let them realize what they might just loose.