"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is the best time to exchange numbers OLD

Epicwinguy

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I am mostly talking about Tinder. I am supposed to get that number pretty quickly in the conversation, but exactly how soon? And also, I read about a strategy where you give them your number and it weeds out the low interested women, but isn't this a bit risky since it leave you open to getting hacked?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bible_Belt

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I don't use Tinder, but on POF, I will say very quickly, "Hey I don't have pof on my phone. If you give me your number, we can text." And that is true, I don't. It is technically possible to run phone apps on a desktop pc, so you could still say that about Tinder.
 

Konada

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In my experience, numbers mean sh!t nowadays. Most girls would gladly give you their number in hopes that you give them more attention without any intention of hanging out with you. In this case, I'd agree with Espi to put the cart before the horse.

"Let's go for a drink. Drop me your number and I'll text you soon."
 

resilient

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In my experience, numbers mean sh!t nowadays. Most girls would gladly give you their number in hopes that you give them more attention without any intention of hanging out with you. In this case, I'd agree with Espi to put the cart before the horse.

"Let's go for a drink. Drop me your number and I'll text you soon."
Seriously, getting texts from guys these days seems to provide as much attention-validation as going out on dates these days. o_O
 

El Payaso

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When you feel you've built a decent rapport.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SgtSplacker

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I'll ask for the number after I have had the chance to ask a couple questions and the answers satisfy me. I make sure she realizes my approval and sees my interest growing then I ask.

Ask question, approve and amplify, repeat, repeat. Ask for number.

I control the interaction, I ask questions and screen them while keeping it light. I ask for the number. If she declines. I'll say well that's ok maybe we'll chat again sometime. I'll never say hi again unless she initiates. Sometimes they will give me their number next day or in a couple days. Women don't know what they want initially, sometimes you have to let them realize what they might just loose.
 
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