"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is the best thing to do

S.Y.L

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The girl I like and me were talking and it turns out, we have no classes together at all next year. She was disapointed when she found out I wasnt in any. We are friends right now, and I havent been able to see her in almost 2 months, so talking on IM, tetxs, aint lettin me exactly be a DJ, as there is no body language, talking in person etc...

Anyways, Whats the more DJ thing to do, switch around a few things to get in a few of her classes, or just don't bother. I told her I might switch into a few of her classes, and she was very happy, and mentioned that I have to sit by her.

My classes arent that great anyways and she has better teachers, keep that in second thought though, thats less of a concern, as my teachers arent bad. So what to do? She is very flirty, so if I leave her alone like that, kinda risky mabye....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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why not ask her on a date to 'catch up' if you havent seen her in 2 months?

also if you move into her classes your risking entry to the friendzone i'd say..

if your gonna sit next to her in those classes you guys are gonna talk alot, maybe too much, you wanna have her missing you so she'll want to go on dates etc with you, then you can put the sly moves on ohhhh yeeee
 

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Don't switch into her classes. She can switch into yours if she wants or you two can just have separate classes. Not being in the same classes is really no big deal; it can even be a good thing. Make her chase you in this case, you switching your classes would be you chasing her.

And if you haven't seen her in two months, ask her to hang out and catch up.
 

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Ahh, I know what to do now, I'll tell her that I can't and if she wants to she can switch into mine.
 
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