"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is the best thing to do

S.Y.L

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The girl I like and me were talking and it turns out, we have no classes together at all next year. She was disapointed when she found out I wasnt in any. We are friends right now, and I havent been able to see her in almost 2 months, so talking on IM, tetxs, aint lettin me exactly be a DJ, as there is no body language, talking in person etc...

Anyways, Whats the more DJ thing to do, switch around a few things to get in a few of her classes, or just don't bother. I told her I might switch into a few of her classes, and she was very happy, and mentioned that I have to sit by her.

My classes arent that great anyways and she has better teachers, keep that in second thought though, thats less of a concern, as my teachers arent bad. So what to do? She is very flirty, so if I leave her alone like that, kinda risky mabye....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nicelife

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why not ask her on a date to 'catch up' if you havent seen her in 2 months?

also if you move into her classes your risking entry to the friendzone i'd say..

if your gonna sit next to her in those classes you guys are gonna talk alot, maybe too much, you wanna have her missing you so she'll want to go on dates etc with you, then you can put the sly moves on ohhhh yeeee
 

Cashew

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Don't switch into her classes. She can switch into yours if she wants or you two can just have separate classes. Not being in the same classes is really no big deal; it can even be a good thing. Make her chase you in this case, you switching your classes would be you chasing her.

And if you haven't seen her in two months, ask her to hang out and catch up.
 

S.Y.L

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Ahh, I know what to do now, I'll tell her that I can't and if she wants to she can switch into mine.
 
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