"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is the best approach on myspace/internet

Theunique1

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I'd consider myself to be about an 8 or 9 by attractiveness standards. I'm in top shape and groom myself well. However, I've found getting girls to respond well on sites like myspace and match.com has been a challenge. I do a lot better with girls in person. Is there any one approach that any of you fellas has found that works? I'm not about cheezy pick-up lines and one liners and "oh you're so hot"...so I typically come out with something somewhat witty or just a smartass remark.(C+F)......Does it pay in this situation to be sincere....what's the attitude to take?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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avrilishot

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Dude dont meet chicks on the net, its dumb. They could be lieing(sp) to you and s*it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't follow the advice of anyone who doesn't know how to sarge online. The method is the same, the Net is just a medium which doesn't allow you the ease of getting immediate feedback of whether you are doing well with your actions or fvcking up, that's why most guys avoid it (that and that they have no idea on how to qualify women). Make sure that you have game and you'll do fine online.
 

DJ Axton

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I despise sites like Myspace and bebo and whatnot. I see no proper use for them, especially when it comes to meeting girls. Heck I hardly ever use msn. If I want to talk to someone I prefer to do it in person, or over the phone.

There has been the odd occasion where I need to game someone over msn though, in which case the rules are the same, just be careful what you say cause you never know who else may be watching lol. But it is actually quite relaxing gaming over msn cause you don't have to think so fast on the spot (I have a real problem with that), you can take a minute to think about the best thing to say. But I wouldn't talk to someone over msn that I haven't met in person first.
 

maranathaman

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I think mspace sux personally.
But I DO use other sites.
I think that peeps who say that getting gurls online
is somehow loser behavior etc.
are living in the dark ages.
The net is a great tool that allows you to meet women
who are looking for love, sex etc. that you would never meet otherwise.
Don't ONLY meet women on the net,
but use it as one of the several tools in your toolbox.
For those who still refuse to use the net to meet women, fine! that leaves more for me!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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maranathaman said:
I think mspace sux personally.
But I DO use other sites....
MySpace, Facebook and the like aren't dating sites; they're social networks used for social promotion; "Look how many people have signed up to be my friend!" :rolleyes: Whatever; that ain't dating.
 

KontrollerX

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Well you could read a chick's profile.

If she's crying and whining about how her current boyfriend is emotionally unavailable to her or some other crap you can game her as the voice of reason and be all like there, there baby its gonna be ok whats wrong and gradually fill in the hole in her life so eventually you get to fill the hole you really wish to fill.

DJ Axton said:
you never know who else may be watching lol.
The hour is later than you think.

Sauron's forces are already moving.

The nine have left minas morgul!
 
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