"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is the best approach on myspace/internet

Theunique1

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I'd consider myself to be about an 8 or 9 by attractiveness standards. I'm in top shape and groom myself well. However, I've found getting girls to respond well on sites like myspace and match.com has been a challenge. I do a lot better with girls in person. Is there any one approach that any of you fellas has found that works? I'm not about cheezy pick-up lines and one liners and "oh you're so hot"...so I typically come out with something somewhat witty or just a smartass remark.(C+F)......Does it pay in this situation to be sincere....what's the attitude to take?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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avrilishot

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Dude dont meet chicks on the net, its dumb. They could be lieing(sp) to you and s*it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't follow the advice of anyone who doesn't know how to sarge online. The method is the same, the Net is just a medium which doesn't allow you the ease of getting immediate feedback of whether you are doing well with your actions or fvcking up, that's why most guys avoid it (that and that they have no idea on how to qualify women). Make sure that you have game and you'll do fine online.
 

DJ Axton

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I despise sites like Myspace and bebo and whatnot. I see no proper use for them, especially when it comes to meeting girls. Heck I hardly ever use msn. If I want to talk to someone I prefer to do it in person, or over the phone.

There has been the odd occasion where I need to game someone over msn though, in which case the rules are the same, just be careful what you say cause you never know who else may be watching lol. But it is actually quite relaxing gaming over msn cause you don't have to think so fast on the spot (I have a real problem with that), you can take a minute to think about the best thing to say. But I wouldn't talk to someone over msn that I haven't met in person first.
 

maranathaman

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I think mspace sux personally.
But I DO use other sites.
I think that peeps who say that getting gurls online
is somehow loser behavior etc.
are living in the dark ages.
The net is a great tool that allows you to meet women
who are looking for love, sex etc. that you would never meet otherwise.
Don't ONLY meet women on the net,
but use it as one of the several tools in your toolbox.
For those who still refuse to use the net to meet women, fine! that leaves more for me!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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maranathaman said:
I think mspace sux personally.
But I DO use other sites....
MySpace, Facebook and the like aren't dating sites; they're social networks used for social promotion; "Look how many people have signed up to be my friend!" :rolleyes: Whatever; that ain't dating.
 

KontrollerX

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Well you could read a chick's profile.

If she's crying and whining about how her current boyfriend is emotionally unavailable to her or some other crap you can game her as the voice of reason and be all like there, there baby its gonna be ok whats wrong and gradually fill in the hole in her life so eventually you get to fill the hole you really wish to fill.

DJ Axton said:
you never know who else may be watching lol.
The hour is later than you think.

Sauron's forces are already moving.

The nine have left minas morgul!
 
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