Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is the appropriate response when a camera shy girlfriend sends you nudes?

El Payaso

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Do you respond nonchalantly like "Cool..." or validate her like "Nice tits. Very nice"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jaylan

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Just be honest, compliment her without sounding thirsty, and then send her back some eye candy. Thats what I usually do. "hmmm, Im definitely a fan". Nice and simple.

And tbh, they gush over my pics a lot more than I do. Ive only done this with 3 women though. And I only sent PG-13 stuff. I still had them strongly wanting to get me into their bed though.
 

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Similar to what Jaylan said about saying something flirty and sexy without seeming desperate like you've never seen tits and ass before. Instead of something like "OMG Damn!!! You look sooo hot!" Thats a No-No. Instead Say something like "Love the pic baby, Now its making me want to grab you and bend you over and give it to you nice and hard". This shows her that you appreciate the pictures so much that you desire her without sounding needy.
 

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What you guys said worked. I said "Hmm...nice melons." She replied by sending me more.
 
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