"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is the appropriate response when a camera shy girlfriend sends you nudes?

El Payaso

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Do you respond nonchalantly like "Cool..." or validate her like "Nice tits. Very nice"?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jaylan

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Just be honest, compliment her without sounding thirsty, and then send her back some eye candy. Thats what I usually do. "hmmm, Im definitely a fan". Nice and simple.

And tbh, they gush over my pics a lot more than I do. Ive only done this with 3 women though. And I only sent PG-13 stuff. I still had them strongly wanting to get me into their bed though.
 

In2theGame

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Similar to what Jaylan said about saying something flirty and sexy without seeming desperate like you've never seen tits and ass before. Instead of something like "OMG Damn!!! You look sooo hot!" Thats a No-No. Instead Say something like "Love the pic baby, Now its making me want to grab you and bend you over and give it to you nice and hard". This shows her that you appreciate the pictures so much that you desire her without sounding needy.
 

El Payaso

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What you guys said worked. I said "Hmm...nice melons." She replied by sending me more.
 
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