AlmostThere!
Senior Don Juan
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I think it's more than confidence. Can a guy have swagger wearing a button down shirt and nice shoes? Or does it require a baseball cap pulled to the side and jewelry?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What is swagger?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Doc Freezy
Don Juan
its the way you carry yourself, your demeanor.
If it doesn't come naturally you have to consciously remind yourself to be confident and and swaggerific all the time until it comes autonomously.
If it doesn't come naturally you have to consciously remind yourself to be confident and and swaggerific all the time until it comes autonomously.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Swagger is a barbershop here in New Jersey.
google.
The act or manner of a swaggerer; A bold, or arrogant strut; To walk with a swaying motion; hence, to walk and act in a pompous, consequential manner; To boast or brag noisily; to be ostentatiously proud or vainglorious; to bluster; to bully
lmao
The act or manner of a swaggerer; A bold, or arrogant strut; To walk with a swaying motion; hence, to walk and act in a pompous, consequential manner; To boast or brag noisily; to be ostentatiously proud or vainglorious; to bluster; to bully
lmao
Swagger is an urban American slang term for men who like larger middle-aged woman (?) who wear trashy clothing (i.e. Kanye West). I don't have any and pray to God that it never gets close to me.
Every suburban American boy's hero and his...uh...
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If you guys find that beast attractive I give up.
Every suburban American boy's hero and his...uh...
http://smartsexyrichcrazy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/avatar.jpg
If you guys find that beast attractive I give up.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
You're not serious right? Where the hell did you come up with that definition? You obviously have very little grasp on American culture. And you think Kanye is "every suburban American boy's hero"? He's a joke now, some people still like his music but nobody respects him as a person. American people are very into Lil Wayne, not so much Kanye.BigJimbo said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LOL. And some of us are into neither because we are adults. Swagger is just your personal confident style. Which is why you hear the word "my" usually preceding it. So on the morning when you feel like a million bucks and dress like your version of a million bucks and walk like your version of a million bucks, that's your swagger.Exhumed said: