what is she up to?

[Jaun_Don]

Okay I am going to the movies tommorow night with a cute 21 year old and we are getting drunk before hand...(for a laugh) we have been to the movies before and we enjoy each other's company and get on really well, but she is seeing another dude, (I think they are still on I'm not really sure she hasn't said anything).

She has told me that we are friends (in front of her BF while ignoring him no less... ) anyways I don't really want a r/ship with this girl (If it happened great but I'm not sure I'd trust her) but I do find her sexually attractive and was just looking for advice...do friends actually go out on Friday Night's?...(that's date night right? and why me over the dude she is seeing?)

She has txted me a lot this week and has called me as well.

She has invited me to her place before the movie...so any advice fellas?...I just plan to play it cool and see what happens.

 

[arutha]

Attention whore by the sounds of it.. I know one that does the same kind of stuff to me, we've done date kinda things plenty of times and held hands but when I tried to kiss her I got 'I already have a bf, we're friends'

Shes leading you on because she enjoys your company, either use her as practice and like an experiment to try new date ideas and don't think of her as more than a flirty friend, or forget her.

Either way, think about the stuff shes doing with you and consider whether you would want your gf to be doing that kind of stuff with other guys then decide whether you really want to get with her or not.. I know I sure wouldn't with that kind of girl, if she wound up with a guy 'friend' who was forward and pushy you'd be in a lot of pain.

 

[nishbuk]

Originally posted by arutha
Attention whore by the sounds of it.. I know one that does the same kind of stuff to me, we've done date kinda things plenty of times and held hands but when I tried to kiss her I got 'I already have a bf, we're friends'

Shes leading you on because she enjoys your company, either use her as practice and like an experiment to try new date ideas and don't think of her as more than a flirty friend, or forget her.

Either way, think about the stuff shes doing with you and consider whether you would want your gf to be doing that kind of stuff with other guys then decide whether you really want to get with her or not.. I know I sure wouldn't with that kind of girl, if she wound up with a guy 'friend' who was forward and pushy you'd be in a lot of pain.

Well now wait a second, from what you've posted, I would agree that you did deal with an attention *****, if she was holding hands, flirting with you etc. But it sounds like our thread starter hasn't experienced any of that. If they are just going out then there's nothing wrong with that. If she's not physically flirting with you, or making it clear in other ways, I think that you are just her friend, and she considered you that way.
And yes, friends do go out on friday nights. And there's isn't a such thing as "date night".
All the behaviors you've said she was exhibiting are no more than what any other friend would exhibit.
If she's an attention *****, then any girl who wants to be just friends is an attention *****...and that's just silly.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Man, I love having a pet dog. I love how it looks at me when I eat food, wanting a piece of it. I love how my pet dog goes where I want it to go. I'd never have sex with it cause it's just gross, but damn it's cute when it begs at me, wanting affection and food. I give it affection and food, but I freely ignore it when I got a ho to fancy with.

Remember, REAL DJs obey US, the fake ones follow Black_Italian

 

[arutha]

Originally posted by nishbuk
Well now wait a second, from what you've posted, I would agree that you did deal with an attention *****, if she was holding hands, flirting with you etc. But it sounds like our thread starter hasn't experienced any of that. If they are just going out then there's nothing wrong with that. If she's not physically flirting with you, or making it clear in other ways, I think that you are just her friend, and she considered you that way.
And yes, friends do go out on friday nights. And there's isn't a such thing as "date night".
All the behaviors you've said she was exhibiting are no more than what any other friend would exhibit.
If she's an attention *****, then any girl who wants to be just friends is an attention *****...and that's just silly.

Yeah good point.. I got on the points about them getting drunk together, and going back to her place. Its possible that she is, but also possible that she is just being a friend.

 

[brenbaus]

Honestly, yes, friends do go out on friday nights, that is the only way I can see some of my friends other than at school, even if they have b/fs, they either dont tell the b/f, or they tell him and he dont care. As long as she is not trying to hold hands and get you too close to her (as if the two of you were in a relationship), she is acting like a friend, if she starts holding your hand, but wont let you kiss her, then she is an attention wh0re