"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is she trying to pull?

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Ice_Berg_1

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I met this chick about 3 months ago, we've hung out a few times and it seemed like there was mutual interest. Then, all of a sudden she stopped returning my calls and giving exsuses so I stopped calling her. Now for the last couple of weeks she has been calling me all te time wanting to get together and stuff. But, she claims she now has a boyfriend.
I don't have time for games so I have no problem letting this one go, and I'm in no way obsessing over her or anything like that, but she is only 18, and I'm wondering if she using this boyfriend thing as a tactic
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJStudent

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DROP her!

Some girl did same stuff to me just recently. We hung out, thought it was cool, she weirded me out, stopped calling her, she called me like after a month all the time, weirded me out again. NEVER AGAIN AM I LETTING THIS HAPPEN. Really a waste of your time.
 
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Originally posted by Ice_Berg_1
I...Now for the last couple of weeks she has been calling me all te time wanting to get together and stuff. But, she claims she now has a boyfriend.
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Hahaha, these young hors crack me up - when she didn't have a b/f she doesn't call you but now that she has one she calls you?? This hor wants two penises and is not satisfied with one!!!!

Say "No" to greedy hos!!!!
 
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