I am friends with this woman and one day she is eating a sandwich and she said she didn't like it, so being a pig I said that I would take it. Well she says NO and a few minutes later she comes and finds me and gives me a little piece of what was left of her sandwich. I ate it now she is always wanting me to eat something of hers. She then made some pasta one day and she is feeding it to me like a baby. At that point I just knew she got something out of me eating from her. So a few weeks later I just asked her and she says that she is just that comfortable with me. She said "remeber we shared a fork" I thought gee wtf. I go out to resturants with her all the time and I drink Mountain Dew and she never did then I notice she started to drink it and everytime I asked for a refill she would just say here drink some of mine. It seemed that she was drinking it to be like me and/or just to get me to drink from her glass. Everything she eats I have to either take a bite of it or eat the last piece. I take it that this is some kind of interest?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What is she doing ? ?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
She is creating a motherly bond to you.
More than likely it will end up as non-sexual unless you find a way to assert manhood through all of this.
More than likely it will end up as non-sexual unless you find a way to assert manhood through all of this.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
When a girl shares food with you ESPECIALLY after she has had her bite or drink it is normally a sign of motherly bonding where she feels like she is nurturing a child to her. It's sort of about the same level as a girl saying that she sees you as a brother except from the viewpoint of a woman who feels herself to be older or sometimes just concerned about things in general.
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I agree with rgeere again.
Only after getting with her is feeding each other romantic/cool.
Amp up the kino, put things in HER mouth.
'Mmmmm you like big breakfast sausage don't you? WELL HAVE SOME MILK WOMAN! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!!!!'
Next time she feeds you bite her hand. Or maybe just ignore that bit since I've got like a vampire fetish or something.
Clearly I need counselling.
Edit: I forgot an 's'.
Only after getting with her is feeding each other romantic/cool.
Amp up the kino, put things in HER mouth.
'Mmmmm you like big breakfast sausage don't you? WELL HAVE SOME MILK WOMAN! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!!!!'
Next time she feeds you bite her hand. Or maybe just ignore that bit since I've got like a vampire fetish or something.
Clearly I need counselling.
Edit: I forgot an 's'.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.