"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What is sex like with a woman who is in her fifties and sixties?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
If she likes you, her clothes come off, there is no arm wrestling, no: "what are we doing" BS.
At times, it seems, they are actually using you as a human dildo.
Older women are lonely...they want to feel passion....hence, they drop the gear instantly.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Desdinova
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I'm very much the same way. A cute, age-free face will grab my attention more than a drooping, lined face with a skinny body. As long as I'm able to attract women in their 20s, I'll keep fvcking women in their 20s.acw said:
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
I blew my load, pretended I was just going out for a smoke and did the runner. She was pretty dirty though.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
I was fooling around with an old client last year, she had just turned 51. She can't cume with a man-- at all, ever. I noticed, she doesn't get very wet. She can do herself with a vibrator. It really took away my enjoyment, but she sure felt good... cute bod, too, and no kids! I was bummed, because I genuinely liked her, despite all her issues... just a sweet, honest, good-hearted gal. She only wanted s3x about twice a month. One night she blew up at me, "Do you just c0me over here to have s3x?" Um, yeah, actually. It's not like she had much else going on.
One important thing about being with her was, I realized I could actually have s3x again without thinking about my horrible bypass operation. I nearly died! That was four years ago.
My last real romance 5 years ago was the ex-trophy wife, another client of mine whose friends told me to go after her... very sweet lady, all the men who know her are craving for her. She was over 50, but she never told me her exact age; I was 54. She was married twice but the s3x was never that great. It didn't sound like she'd had any partners outside of marriage. She'd had a full hysterectomey, and knew her Kegels, hot dam! I was the first man who showed her how to get the Big O more than once, and we'd have mad s3x every Friday night for hours at a time. Then her daughter would call, asking when she's coming home. We never had sleepovers, except one time. Her daughter had a fit.
We carried on like that for four months, and then she pulled the plug, right before Christmas, gave me the "I need time" talk. It's the THIRD time a woman has dumped me right before Christmas!
Now I'm 59, not the studmuffin of five years ago. The bypass operation took an awful lot out of me, so I mainly just focus on myself. There are hot women over fifty everywhere I go, but they're not into romance for the most part. They'd rather ride horses and mess around with their other galpals.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
Some do, some don't. I don't know of anyone on HRT. My pirate wench from last year has a great bod, and HAD a really sweet face, but it crashed over the last two or three years. She's 52 now... maybe if she didn't smoke meth, she might at least have all her teeth.Scormus said:
My last trophy wife is maybe 58 now and still looks pretty. She needs to work on her muscle tone, though... she had a bad horse fall right after she broke us up, but it shouldn't have injured her as badly as it did.
I had one gorgeous ex-trophy wife who was forty, and her face crashed just a couple of years later. We were only together for 9 months. I stopped by her work to say Hi, and almost went into shock. She looked awful.
You should see my sis-- she's 62 and she's got some Brit who's in his forties. She looks great, keeps very active, windsurfing and such.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
Old girlfriend of mine had hers tied when she was 27, and she was always wet.backbreaker said:
My cougar had hers tied when she was forty--after I knocked her up! It didn't change how she felt inside. She broke us up but I got back with her years later, and she still felt the same.
Although the OP is probably long gone, I have some answers to his questions, being the husband of a post-menopausal woman in her late 50's.seth03 said:
1. Yes, she does have vaginal dryness.
2. As a result of the vaginal dryness, we no longer have vaginal intercourse.
3. To make up for the lack of intercourse, we have much more oral sex.
4. Final conclusion: as the OP says, not a bad tradeoff.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
This is an old post still interesting.....Since I first posted,I have met and screwed a 72 year old Widow...She was Chinese too a Chinese Medicine Doctor,well preserved but too lacking in experience to make a good plate....But,but,but...interestingly enough she was remarkably well lubricated as are all the Chinese I have known svexually,so it may be genetic...For those that don't know,just as we emit lubricant from our Cowpers Gland,then so do Women from their Bartholin Glands...Just as some people have more saliva than others so it is with these organs...One Woman of my intimate acquaintance,had to have her overactive glands surgically removed at the age of 16!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
after a nervous start she now just cant get enough! her sex drive is just incredible and we just **** for hours at a time! she is very happy to dress up and more than willing to try out lots of new positions
so i can defiantly recommend sex with an older women!
seek out and enjoy!
I guess the best of both worlds would be a 22 y.o. who had good diet, exercise and sleep habits, etc., and though I haven't met any of those during almost 50 years on the planet, if I ever do, will be sure to f-ck her and come back here with a report.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Well our Collossus could be more definitlve I am sure,but in my experience the oldest Woman,I screwed who still had her monthly (Sporadically) was 53....An interesting one is a Woman I have screwed,at 49 stopped bleeding for 18 months,then a new Guy came along,evidently a very good lover,she had a wonderful time with him and amazingly she started bleeding every month,only for a few months then she went back to spotting..
As I have said a hundred times,in general regular sex fools the body into believing it is younger,a win-win situation!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.