"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What is sex like with a woman who is in her fifties and sixties?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
If she likes you, her clothes come off, there is no arm wrestling, no: "what are we doing" BS.
At times, it seems, they are actually using you as a human dildo.
Older women are lonely...they want to feel passion....hence, they drop the gear instantly.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Desdinova
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I'm very much the same way. A cute, age-free face will grab my attention more than a drooping, lined face with a skinny body. As long as I'm able to attract women in their 20s, I'll keep fvcking women in their 20s.acw said:
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
I blew my load, pretended I was just going out for a smoke and did the runner. She was pretty dirty though.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
I was fooling around with an old client last year, she had just turned 51. She can't cume with a man-- at all, ever. I noticed, she doesn't get very wet. She can do herself with a vibrator. It really took away my enjoyment, but she sure felt good... cute bod, too, and no kids! I was bummed, because I genuinely liked her, despite all her issues... just a sweet, honest, good-hearted gal. She only wanted s3x about twice a month. One night she blew up at me, "Do you just c0me over here to have s3x?" Um, yeah, actually. It's not like she had much else going on.
One important thing about being with her was, I realized I could actually have s3x again without thinking about my horrible bypass operation. I nearly died! That was four years ago.
My last real romance 5 years ago was the ex-trophy wife, another client of mine whose friends told me to go after her... very sweet lady, all the men who know her are craving for her. She was over 50, but she never told me her exact age; I was 54. She was married twice but the s3x was never that great. It didn't sound like she'd had any partners outside of marriage. She'd had a full hysterectomey, and knew her Kegels, hot dam! I was the first man who showed her how to get the Big O more than once, and we'd have mad s3x every Friday night for hours at a time. Then her daughter would call, asking when she's coming home. We never had sleepovers, except one time. Her daughter had a fit.
We carried on like that for four months, and then she pulled the plug, right before Christmas, gave me the "I need time" talk. It's the THIRD time a woman has dumped me right before Christmas!
Now I'm 59, not the studmuffin of five years ago. The bypass operation took an awful lot out of me, so I mainly just focus on myself. There are hot women over fifty everywhere I go, but they're not into romance for the most part. They'd rather ride horses and mess around with their other galpals.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
Some do, some don't. I don't know of anyone on HRT. My pirate wench from last year has a great bod, and HAD a really sweet face, but it crashed over the last two or three years. She's 52 now... maybe if she didn't smoke meth, she might at least have all her teeth.Scormus said:
My last trophy wife is maybe 58 now and still looks pretty. She needs to work on her muscle tone, though... she had a bad horse fall right after she broke us up, but it shouldn't have injured her as badly as it did.
I had one gorgeous ex-trophy wife who was forty, and her face crashed just a couple of years later. We were only together for 9 months. I stopped by her work to say Hi, and almost went into shock. She looked awful.
You should see my sis-- she's 62 and she's got some Brit who's in his forties. She looks great, keeps very active, windsurfing and such.
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
Old girlfriend of mine had hers tied when she was 27, and she was always wet.backbreaker said:
My cougar had hers tied when she was forty--after I knocked her up! It didn't change how she felt inside. She broke us up but I got back with her years later, and she still felt the same.
Although the OP is probably long gone, I have some answers to his questions, being the husband of a post-menopausal woman in her late 50's.seth03 said:
1. Yes, she does have vaginal dryness.
2. As a result of the vaginal dryness, we no longer have vaginal intercourse.
3. To make up for the lack of intercourse, we have much more oral sex.
4. Final conclusion: as the OP says, not a bad tradeoff.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
This is an old post still interesting.....Since I first posted,I have met and screwed a 72 year old Widow...She was Chinese too a Chinese Medicine Doctor,well preserved but too lacking in experience to make a good plate....But,but,but...interestingly enough she was remarkably well lubricated as are all the Chinese I have known svexually,so it may be genetic...For those that don't know,just as we emit lubricant from our Cowpers Gland,then so do Women from their Bartholin Glands...Just as some people have more saliva than others so it is with these organs...One Woman of my intimate acquaintance,had to have her overactive glands surgically removed at the age of 16!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
after a nervous start she now just cant get enough! her sex drive is just incredible and we just **** for hours at a time! she is very happy to dress up and more than willing to try out lots of new positions
so i can defiantly recommend sex with an older women!
seek out and enjoy!
I guess the best of both worlds would be a 22 y.o. who had good diet, exercise and sleep habits, etc., and though I haven't met any of those during almost 50 years on the planet, if I ever do, will be sure to f-ck her and come back here with a report.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Well our Collossus could be more definitlve I am sure,but in my experience the oldest Woman,I screwed who still had her monthly (Sporadically) was 53....An interesting one is a Woman I have screwed,at 49 stopped bleeding for 18 months,then a new Guy came along,evidently a very good lover,she had a wonderful time with him and amazingly she started bleeding every month,only for a few months then she went back to spotting..
As I have said a hundred times,in general regular sex fools the body into believing it is younger,a win-win situation!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.