"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

what is one thing that irks you about females?

ikkenai

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2004
Messages
209
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by pimpfromdayone

Dam-nit, it's not like I'm asking you to marry me, I'm not even asking you to see me ever again, but if you promise to meet me somewhere or call me, you better fu-cking do it, because I am NOT going to make an effort to give you any more chances. I am not saying I really care that much, but it is such a shame when a girl lets her games or stupidity stand in the way of furthering her relationship with me. A game is a game, but I am never completely inconsiderate of the other person. Again, if a guy is asking you to meet them somewhere, it doesn't mean they want to fu-ck you, marry you, or even that you have to see them again, so stop acting like it is such a big deal.
AAAAARGF SO TRUE.

This has happened a few times - I see a girl on campus, I get her number, and never call.

I see her a week, month, whatever later... we pass in the hall or whatever, and she shoots the LOOK OF DEATH at you.

Christ almighty, are you that insecure? So I didn't call you, no need to take it so personally. You can't even say Hi, you have to ignore me like it's some sort of game to be won.

Jesus, girls and guys have a lot in common - most see PERSONAL REJECTION when it's nothing more than, say, I didn't have time to call, or got caught up in other things, or whatever. It's a FABRICATION, not reality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Badmannaz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 13, 2005
Messages
782
Reaction score
18
Location
entering the 4th quarter....
^^^^

uhh dude you didn't call her

that's why she was pissed at you....

but i know what you mean if a girl would have done that to me and a month later camae i would just suspect she didn't like me and move on but no dirty looks. lolz
 

ikkenai

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2004
Messages
209
Reaction score
0
Look, it's a number - "Hey, give me your number, MAYBE we'll get a drink some time". There's no contractual agreement going on here. Maybe if they realized I get one or two numbers a day, and like 5 on the weekend, they'd understand, heh.

Now breaking a date agreed upon by parties - that's ground for anger.
 

Swoop

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 20, 2005
Messages
272
Reaction score
0
The only thing that irks me with females is when they don't let me poke them with my stick.
 

pimpfromdayone

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2005
Messages
674
Reaction score
1
Age
40
What do women want?
EVERYTHING.
I also hate how they are so emotionally driven. This alone is proof that men are much smarter than women. Emotion is like the most primitive, lowest cognitive function. Reason and logic is higher, and this is what us men have.

Those huge sunglasses :rolleyes: Nothing says "arrogant bit-ch" like a pair of those. I think there are much more arrogant women than men. I don't know what it is, but those dam-n sunglasses are very popular among lower IQ women, particularly sorority girls. There must be a correlation there. I just want to rip those things off their heads and smash them on the ground, along with their "cuuuute" little cell phones, and tell them to put on some pants that don't have greek letters across the ass.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
What do women want?
EVERYTHING.
I also hate how they are so emotionally driven. This alone is proof that men are much smarter than women. Emotion is like the most primitive, lowest cognitive function. Reason and logic is higher, and this is what us men have.
holy crap! you ever said a mean joke to a guy and said just kidding. They would laugh it off and it would be over. You ever said something mean to a girl and said "just kidding"? She wouldn't even HEAR the "just kidding" part, she'd be like "I can't believe you just said that." And get all upset.:mad:
 

pimpfromdayone

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2005
Messages
674
Reaction score
1
Age
40
Yes sir, sure have...
sometimes they just want to see if you're man enough to stand behind what you said, but sometimes they are dead serious and it is just so stupid. I don't even know what provokes a girl sometimes. If the girl is on her period, she will be super sensitive, but come on, that's no excuse for acting like a bit-ch. Needless to say, steer clear when it's her time of month, lol. But yeaaah, life for a woman, is a constant struggle with emotions.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top