"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is needed to get matches on tinder for men in 2018 (pics included)

Who Dares Win

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Long story short, lets list the MINIMUM necessary requirements to have a match on tinder for men in 2018 living in usa-europe.

1)Size doesnt really matter as long as is at least the same size and proportion of an 80s roided wrestler


2)A receiding hairline is tolerable as long as no more than 0.1cm of forehead is visible


3)No need for excessive toys, all you need to make her happy are a couple of vehicles to take her out


4)Hotels are a no-go but don't worry as long as you have your own place its enough


5)A gentleman never splits bills, grab some cash for drinks in case she may be thirsty
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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6)Show that you are not afraid of animals, she will love it


7)She needs to be sure you're a serious man, a job she considers worth is mandatory


8)Not really necessary but better avoid being a mr nobody, being greated from few friends at your arrival is a plus


It's not that hard, just be yourself and your matches will happen without you even realizing it.
 

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Got over 20 matches my first week of tindering being super strict on who I swiped for so I guess that's not horrible.
Just 2 pics I modelled in plus 1 selfie.

Gonna cut down a little soon so I'll see if adding a shirtless pic helps at all.

Going to eastern europe over the summer to visit family so it'll be interesting to experiment down there as well!
 
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Got over 20 matches my first week of tindering being super strict on who I swiped for so I guess that's not horrible.
Just 2 pics I modelled in plus 1 selfie.

Gonna cut down a little soon so I'll see if adding a shirtless pic helps at all.

Going to eastern europe over the summer to visit family so it'll be interesting to experiment down there as well!
If you get a decent number of matches anywhere in the USA or Western Europe, I think you should expect to clean up anywhere else in the world.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you get a decent number of matches anywhere in the USA or Western Europe, I think you should expect to clean up anywhere else in the world.
Yup, I'll have to report on that when the time comes...just like I expect you to give us a report of how much more successful you become when you add those great pics on your tinder ;)
 

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Tinder sloots aren’t worth your time. You’re better off jacking to p0rn or spam approaching on the street
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where do you live?
He wrote Amsterdam, well no wonder girls dont play hard to get when prostitution is legal where you live, guess you cant screw up so much with the cost-benefits ratio in such environment without being thrown away.
 
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He wrote Amsterdam, well no wonder girls dont play hard to get when prostitution is legal where you live, guess you cant screw up so much with the cost-benefits ratio in such environment without being thrown away.
And they can't try to manipulate a guy into marriage using sex.

I have always thought they should legalize prostitution in the USA.
 

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And they can't try to manipulate a guy into marriage using sex.

I have always thought they should legalize prostitution in the USA.
Where prostitution is legal, socially acceptable and easily accessible, women get the same damage in terms of negotiating power that men suffered once the government removed the need for male protection and income for them.

Legal prostitution is nothing more than an extra market factor that influence the price in a supply/demand model; where men are the buyers and women the suppliers, prostitution keeps the price within a certain range since if suppliers demand too much then buyers will move to a more affordable alternative product.
 

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That or ...

Become a slayer by having 3-5 pics in the 80+ percentile in photofeeler.

Become an OLD king with your pick of the 9 litter by having five pics in the 90+ percentile in photofeeler.

Don’t wish OLD were easier. Wish you get better.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tinder is dead. I have the same pics up on Tinder and Bumble. Get 10x the messages on Bumble. Quality girls there. Tinder is nothing but a wasteland of bots and fatties. In my area anyways.
 
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