"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is needed to get matches on tinder for men in 2018 (pics included)

Who Dares Win

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Long story short, lets list the MINIMUM necessary requirements to have a match on tinder for men in 2018 living in usa-europe.

1)Size doesnt really matter as long as is at least the same size and proportion of an 80s roided wrestler


2)A receiding hairline is tolerable as long as no more than 0.1cm of forehead is visible


3)No need for excessive toys, all you need to make her happy are a couple of vehicles to take her out


4)Hotels are a no-go but don't worry as long as you have your own place its enough


5)A gentleman never splits bills, grab some cash for drinks in case she may be thirsty
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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6)Show that you are not afraid of animals, she will love it


7)She needs to be sure you're a serious man, a job she considers worth is mandatory


8)Not really necessary but better avoid being a mr nobody, being greated from few friends at your arrival is a plus


It's not that hard, just be yourself and your matches will happen without you even realizing it.
 

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Got over 20 matches my first week of tindering being super strict on who I swiped for so I guess that's not horrible.
Just 2 pics I modelled in plus 1 selfie.

Gonna cut down a little soon so I'll see if adding a shirtless pic helps at all.

Going to eastern europe over the summer to visit family so it'll be interesting to experiment down there as well!
 
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Got over 20 matches my first week of tindering being super strict on who I swiped for so I guess that's not horrible.
Just 2 pics I modelled in plus 1 selfie.

Gonna cut down a little soon so I'll see if adding a shirtless pic helps at all.

Going to eastern europe over the summer to visit family so it'll be interesting to experiment down there as well!
If you get a decent number of matches anywhere in the USA or Western Europe, I think you should expect to clean up anywhere else in the world.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you get a decent number of matches anywhere in the USA or Western Europe, I think you should expect to clean up anywhere else in the world.
Yup, I'll have to report on that when the time comes...just like I expect you to give us a report of how much more successful you become when you add those great pics on your tinder ;)
 

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Tinder sloots aren’t worth your time. You’re better off jacking to p0rn or spam approaching on the street
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where do you live?
He wrote Amsterdam, well no wonder girls dont play hard to get when prostitution is legal where you live, guess you cant screw up so much with the cost-benefits ratio in such environment without being thrown away.
 
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He wrote Amsterdam, well no wonder girls dont play hard to get when prostitution is legal where you live, guess you cant screw up so much with the cost-benefits ratio in such environment without being thrown away.
And they can't try to manipulate a guy into marriage using sex.

I have always thought they should legalize prostitution in the USA.
 

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And they can't try to manipulate a guy into marriage using sex.

I have always thought they should legalize prostitution in the USA.
Where prostitution is legal, socially acceptable and easily accessible, women get the same damage in terms of negotiating power that men suffered once the government removed the need for male protection and income for them.

Legal prostitution is nothing more than an extra market factor that influence the price in a supply/demand model; where men are the buyers and women the suppliers, prostitution keeps the price within a certain range since if suppliers demand too much then buyers will move to a more affordable alternative product.
 

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That or ...

Become a slayer by having 3-5 pics in the 80+ percentile in photofeeler.

Become an OLD king with your pick of the 9 litter by having five pics in the 90+ percentile in photofeeler.

Don’t wish OLD were easier. Wish you get better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tinder is dead. I have the same pics up on Tinder and Bumble. Get 10x the messages on Bumble. Quality girls there. Tinder is nothing but a wasteland of bots and fatties. In my area anyways.
 
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