What is my next step?

[Yakovinho]

sorry if it's too long.

I'm a sophmore (10th grade) and there is a girl which she is senior (12th grade).
so 2 months ago in the beginning of the term i moved to a new gym class which we play soccer there.
so i dont know what happened but i liked that girl so much, but i was super AFC and asked my friend who takes the same class as her to ask that girl what she thinks about me, and before that me and the girl i like talked just maybe for 1 minute.
so the time passed by, and always in the hall ways we make strong eye contact but we do not say anything to each other.

last week we went outside to play soccer outside and no one on her team came so i decided to make a step and go to play on her team that we gonna make a little connection so we played and we won 2-0.
on the next day i went to see her playing soccer with the school team and the first time she passed by me she looked down i dont know if she did it because she was shy or scared or something else...

so basically what is my next step?

P.S. she has a boyfriend from what i understood.

 

[Serialized3]

She took her face down? Gross...

 

[Yakovinho]

no! i mean she like looked down.

 

[Serialized3]

your next step should be to game her.

Flirt with her, if she responds well to that start more kino, then if all systems are go tell her that she should go out with you.

 

[Jay Jay]

Talk to her.

I know that sounds crazy, but its so crazy it might actually work!

JJ

 

[Vypros]

your next step should be to game her.

Flirt with her, if she responds well to that start more kino, then if all systems are go tell her that she should go out with you.

No, forget "gaming" her. Forget "flirting" with her. Flirting is a WOMAN'S game. Men do not "flirt", they DO!

You're next step is to ask her out!

Forget about everything else. Forget about kino and escalation and all the mumbo jumbo. You simply walk up to her the next time you see her and you GO FOR IT!

Don't sit around and reason through it. Don't sit around and make excuses. THE NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER YOU ASK HER OUT.

 

[squirrels]

Say hi, chat a little bit, use a little seductive eye contact, and ask for the digits.

 

[Vypros]

use a little seductive eye contact,

lol

 

[Yakovinho]

anymore ideas?

 

[Serialized3]

No, forget "gaming" her. Forget "flirting" with her. Flirting is a WOMAN'S game. Men do not "flirt", they DO!

You're next step is to ask her out!

Forget about everything else. Forget about kino and escalation and all the mumbo jumbo. You simply walk up to her the next time you see her and you GO FOR IT!

Don't sit around and reason through it. Don't sit around and make excuses. THE NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER YOU ASK HER OUT.

Uh, flirting is actually a strong indicator of two things, primarily social adeptness, but it also expresses sexual interest. I flirt all the time, even with girls im not interested in. Makes me more well-liked.

"Asking a girl out" puts you in a submissive position. SUGGEST that you two go out for a drink or whatever. But don't ask.

 

[Vypros]

Uh, flirting is actually a strong indicator of two things, primarily social adeptness, but it also expresses sexual interest. I flirt all the time, even with girls im not interested in. Makes me more well-liked.

"Asking a girl out" puts you in a submissive position. SUGGEST that you two go out for a drink or whatever. But don't ask.

Flirting is a woman's game. I'm not saying that you shouldn't flirt, but at the end of the day it's a woman's game. What I was saying is that you don't use flirting to "escalate". You use flirting to play her game.

The guy needs to escalate, and that means he needs to ask her out. And when I say "ask" I use that term loosely.