"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is more alpha while walking; smiling or looking serious?

SeymourCake

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I would say serious. Some of the top alpha males of today's society were quite serious in their prime: Mike Tyson, Bruce Lee, Hitler, etc. The whole smiling thing comes off as unauthentic to me.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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true alphas walk with their fingers shoved up their ***
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
true alphas walk with their fingers shoved up their ***
True alphas constantly give themselves a prostate check up.
 

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Doing what you want is more alpha. Asking others how to act is most beta.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you make people around you feel compfortable, that's a good start. Going around with a fixed expression just trying to look something you are not so not what you want. Try looking around and getting situation understood.
 

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These questions are getting ridiculous
 

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If the inside reflects on the outside, I walk around with a smile on my face.

It's not directed at any one person, if I say good morning or hello and folks are too dumb to respond with common courtesy, I'm still fine regardless :)
 

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It's about being authentic. If you are a happy, smiley guy, so be it. I'm a serious guy, so I just "own" the serious look. Some people are initially put off by it, but once they get to know me, they see that serious doesn't necessarily equal cold. I'm a friendly serious guy if that makes sense.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am told by my family to not be so miserable, to go out and smile. I know better. It's not realistic, so yeah I am really depressed and miserable, negative and pessimistic.

When I am in public and there are women I constantly feel at war with myself, fighting imaginary people. It sucks if you aren't that attractive, and I have felt like this for years.

When I see college girls on the bus, I am reminded of the time when I was that age and groups of girls used to laugh at me just for existing. I never knew why.

So now I generally feel invisible. It doesn't matter what I do, and it won't likely have much impact because they don't care. A lot of this red pill advice makes a lot of sense when applied to my social life.
 

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Serious is alpha. Laughing and smiling is the court jester.
 

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If you want to smile, smile. If you want to be serious, be serious. Who cares what other people think. You do what you feel like because you are a man.
 

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The fact that you are asking this question indicates:
1. You are a certified not-alpha
2. You are trying to wear a mask rather than work on your inner self
3. You need a major course correction in your life
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I go around looking like I just commited murder, but when I see another fool who tries to pull the same act I look at him and smile and if he aint trully badass he gets ashamed and looks away :D

No srsly, at least with the ladies, dont look like youre about to slit their throats smile more
 

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Darth said:
The fact that you are asking this question indicates:
1. You are a certified not-alpha
2. You are trying to wear a mask rather than work on your inner self
3. You need a major course correction in your life
You just described every thread on SoSuave
 

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Serious when out and about walking or whatever. Smile when being introduced to someone for the first time. When out with a chick should be laughter most of the time. . either laughing yourself or more important making her laugh.
 
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