"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is it with women these days?

gangsterwhack

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I don't know if it's the fact they are more independent now, but, they are a lot harder to communicate too now then a few years ago. You can't even expect to get a hi back or anything if you say it to them!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're not saying "Hi" while she's walking home down the street at night are you?

Sounds like they're just some conceited ho's. Don't worry about it. I'd be worried though if every girl you say hello to just snubs you... but that's not the case, right?
 

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Of course not, I say hi to them in places like malls and what not, but, they just blow it off. Not all of them do it, but, I'd say a good amount do. I'm not exactly ugly either, I've had quite a few girls actually Approach me and tell me they like me, even though I never once exchanged words with them. But that's besides the point, it just seems like girls have gotten more arrogant.
 

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i dont know if the problem is arrogance, probably if you seem to friendly to them. they probably think you're trying to hit on them. if they see you doing it to other girls including her then yea
 

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too, you gotta think if they get hit on 50 times a day, they'd get sick of it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No no no no, not at all. For instance, me and my friend will be walking by and if we see a girl walking by, just a casual hi. They don't even acknowledge it or say anything.
 

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open your mind

You think the real reason is cause of arrogance??

girls are different from guys, they have many insecurities and worries than we do.

for one thing, girls have to worry about getting pregnant

#1 what if the stranger in the street is a serial rapist
#2 what if he's a stalker
#3 serial killer

not all girls will be so cold to you on the street, but there are some with insecurities they have to worry about.

if a girl hangs out late at night till 3 am, they either find a guy to drive them home or someone to escort her home. you cant expect her to go walk home alone, and not worry about rapists or stalkers
 

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The only times when a girl will respect you if you are super cute/popular or you already know her. If she doesn't know who you are, and you're just average looking - be more subtle.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
The only times when a girl will respect you if you are super cute/popular or you already know her. If she doesn't know who you are, and you're just average looking - be more subtle.
actually this guy just made a good point, i do agree with him.

girls really do respect the cute guy more so than the ugly/average guy. i've seen it all my life.
so probably physical attractiveness is a major factor in this also.
 
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